I have a problem with a boy at my school. My teacher assigned us new seats and I sit next to him .............

Question

He was saying how I make my group at my table slow in other words he's calling me stupid. I got really upset at him and started crying but not because i was mad but because that was the only thing stopping me from jumping across the table and strangling him. I ran out the room to cool of some steam so after 20 minutes i came back but thank God class was about to be over.

Answer 1

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Maybe my advice is:

If they call you stupid, then don't be mad with them nor be embarrassed with what they're doing to you. The best thing that you should do is make it as lesson for you or an inspiration for you to study more.

To let you know, when I was in my Grade 1 here in the Philippines, my classmates used to call me stupid or whatever, but I didn't let my self bothered by this. I focused on my study more and tried so much so that they'll recognized me. And I succeeded on that because at the end of the school year, I was recognized as the First Honors in our class.

See! If they're not calling me stupid, would I became First Honors?

Answer 2

tell ur tchr.

Answer 3

Ah, when you react that way the terrorists win. Keep your cool. Guys won't tease you if they know they won't get any sort of reaction.

Answer 4

Ignore his remarks and tell yourself you are smart and he doesn't know what he is talking about and if he doesn't know you then he doesn't know how you think.

Answer 5

Don't get upset over it. That is what he want you to do, get upset when he calls you that. Next time just ignore him, or be like cool. I mean maybe he likes you? but its okay when he calls you stupid just be the better person and don't say anything look at him and roll your eyes

Answer 6

I would go and talk to my teacher after class and let him/her know what is going on. They are calling you stupid basically and you dont like that. If the teacher could move you to a different table or address them next time they are being rude jerks!! You should be put down at school and the teachers should not allow this to continue. If this is not resolved you need to talk to your parents or your councler at school ( that is what they are there for ) talk to your principal. This kinda thing needs to stop.
This is one of the hardest things to do is to speak up for yourself if you were not tough to from day one,
Good luck

Answer 7

I would ask the teacher to change you seats and explain why. If she says no, dont cry when teased, just ignore it, it probably wont stop but they will tone it down eventually. I got teased all thoughout elementary and junior high, until most of the kids moved away... school sucks there's nothing you can do about it

Answer 8

Maybe He Like You. Or You Should Talk To A Close Friend Or Concular(sp). Or Maybe Even Your Teacher.I Know As A Teen It's Hard For Me To Tell On People When Their Doing Wrong. So I Would Suggest Talking To Your Teacher About Changing Seats . If None Of The Things Work,Maybe You're Just Going To Have To Face Him And Let You Know How You Feel And Tell Him It Hurts You And Say He Needs To Stop.

Hope The Best & Good Luck!
Jay Tay :]

Answer 9

r u the only one working with him? if not then try to get your other group members on your side, adn to tell him to lay off. peer pressure works really well sometimes it erases a problem completly. If that wont work, go POLIOTLY up to your teacher after class or before class, and tell him/her what your problem is. if they don't do anything, go to parents, another teacher, principal. some one who is more powerful than the teacher.

but before you do any of that, have you tried asking him why he's being so mean? is he doing anythign to speed up the work? don't cause a fight then no one wins. but just try to figure out why he's doing it. go from there. once you know why then you can figure out what you're supposed to do. Ask friends for advice on that topic, since they'll know you and him better.

Answer 10

next time that happens, look em' straight in the eye and say "thanks a lot, I appreciate it." and just act like it was a compliment.

Answer 11

Tell your teacher to move you to a different group or move him. and you were smart to leave the room insted of jumping across the table. and he sounds like an idoite no real man calls a girl stupid to there face they would help them understan the subject more. you are the better person for controling your anger. dont let a butt head like that get to you. he is the stuiped one

Answer 12

Tell your teacher. He/she will most likely move your seat. Hope this helps!

God Bless!

Answer 13

tell on that Shi*t. that is harassment and he could get in pretty good troble.

Answer 14

just smile at him.

"haha. shut up"

you know be sarcastic..
lol

Answer 15

I would ask the teacher if you can talk to her privately, and then ask her about switching seats. If she/he says no, politely ask if the next time seats are switched, you can sit by someone else. Then, put up with him as best you can, and just try to ignore him, hard as that might be.

Answer 16

Ignore him. Tell ur teacher.....you're probably too good for him anyway.

Answer 17

Ok girl this is how it is. Dont let it show that its getting to you. And come off with some real good comments about him to **** him off at you. He will in turn stop his crap because your standing up to him. And dont back down for nothing