Boyfriend's mom is tripping...Always thinks we are having sex.?

Question

so my boyfriend and i have been together for about a month now. Weve known each other for about 2 years now. So i go places with his family, he comes over my house and i go over his.
His mom is cool sometimes. So yesterday we went to his lil bros baseball game. his mom wouldnt let us go walk anywhwere... so afterwards we were texting and i was like ya guess she doesnt want things to get to spicy(inside joke between us. not bad.) she saw that tx and took spicy to a new level.
like not what we were talkin about.

His mom now has taken his phone and says he is grounded for nothin... She stays thinkin that we will have sex and stuff like that... we arent even like that.. she has seen us together

What should i do? Cant have his mom trippin like that.

im 15 he 16

Additional Details

ok ffor one we arent having sex.
we arent even thinking aboutit

spicy was just a joke about a kiss
we shared... no biggie.

Answer 1

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Just talk to his mom and tell her what is really happening ...

Answer 2

tell her that you are lol and maybe she will stop lol but you should give it a try lol.

Answer 3

go and have a talk with her

Answer 4

first talk like a person "trippin like that"
second are you having sex cause if so then she has just cause to be pissed off. you are too young.

Answer 5

Sit down and talk to her and explain the misunderstanding. If that doesn't work, then just let it go and wait for his mom to understand on her own. Some parents are notorious for thinking the worst and refusing to believe anything but their misguided opinions...

Answer 6

just do it then and make sure she hears you prove her right! you'll get a kick outta it

Answer 7

Talk to her and tell her what's up.

Answer 8

talk to her

Answer 9

you need to talk to her tell her that you guys havent had sex and wont have sex. Tell her she is over reacting and she should calm down tell her that you are practicing abstenice or whatever that is. Tell her you arent into sex yet so she shouldnt worry

Answer 10

She is trippin....
She probably was doing it when she was 15...
Cant people be friends...gees woman!!! Talk to the father, or some other adult that will take your side. Good Luck

Answer 11

have u guys talked to her about it? *gasp* revolutionary new idea. talk to the mom about it, she along with 50 billion other parents have been freaked out be media stories and their own life decisions about teenage sex. she has a good reason to be freaked out..just tell the lady thats not what u guys were referring to. talk to her about it. wildly enough, some parents listen

Answer 12

yo u gotta tell ur momma u not gonna do it wit him if it dont work talk with her

Answer 13

Well, in the first place he should've deleted that text to avoid any drama & confusion like this. You guys are really young to be in a relationship, so being a mother myself, I can see where his mom is coming from. Even though you two may not be having sex, his mom will assume that you are. Word of advice: Don't get tied down at this young of an age. You still have your whole life ahead of you.

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Answer 14

explain it to her and hopefully she will trust you guys :)

Answer 15

Well why does it matter, you guys are old enough to do what you want. Talk to her about it if it really bothers you. She will respect the courage it takes to face something uncomfortable like that.

Answer 16

she is a concerned parent. so many people your age are having sex and getting preganant. she just doesn't want that to happen. she loves her son, the only thing you can do is keep hanging out and NOT having sex so that she can eventually trust you guys to be alone. Its has only been 1 month so maybe in a year it will be different. Give her a reason to trust you guys!

Answer 17

Put yourself in her shoes.....if I read a msg like that I would have immediately thought of sex too and you know darn well thats what you meant....lol.


We have all been there, but don't rush it sweetie! His mother I'm sure just doesn't want anything happenning between you guys too soon...thats all. So she feels she has to guard him somehow by punishing him for your msg. So chill...let her get over reading that. You've gotta win over now so she can trust you again.

Good Luck

Answer 18

just confront her about it!! thats the best thing to do. if u say she's cool then im sure she'll listen to wat u have 2 say. parents r really protective over their kids n they want wats best for them n dont want them 2 get hurt u know? so u gotta see things from her point of view. just make sure she knows where u coming from.

good luck!!

Answer 19

I would write her a letter or an e-mail, explaining the entire situation and expressing your desires for her to understand the truth about your relationship. As long as you write it nicely, it will be very adult/ responsible sounding. You cannot just let her go on thinking you're some little hott thang trying to get in his son's pants. I wouldn't trust your boyfriend alone to explain things to her..they seem to hardly ever get that kind of thing right.
Make sure you tell her that her son is a very important person to her, especially his friendship...maybe even throw in a "you raised your son very well to be a considerate and good young man" for brownie points. Let her know that sex is not on your mind.
What she'll have to understand is, her son is inevitably going to have sex..and its better to be safe and understanding about it, rather than making it look deliciously taboo or ignoring the fact that it WILL happen...with or without *you*.

good luck!

Answer 20

Well I dont blame his mom for how she acting cause the last thing she want is her son to be a dad at 16. I mean its good you all can go over one another house and relax but a baby would change all that really . Call his mom and ask to sit down with her an you boyfriend and tell her your goals in life and what not cause if you are not doing good in class and are lazy and dont want to work ,why would she want her to make a baby with you that she would have to take care of. remember this thou so when you have kids cause trust me only then will you understand why she is acting like this.

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