My ex-girlfriend told one of my friends that she still loves me.?

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I've posted about my situation numerous times. Brief recap. Dated for a year and a half. I started of as a confident dude, then started losing confidence, low self esteem, etc. My ex is beautiful. She broke it off, but we still continued to hang out like a couple. She would sleep over. I would always push for the relationship, which drove her away. She also has other things she's dealing with (family, school). I become obsessive (I'm seeking counseling for this presently). It hit a head yesterday when I felt she was hiding something from me. Felt she met a guy, but wouldn't tell me about it. My co-worker is her roommate and she asked me if my ex was with me last night because she didn't sleep at home, which of course made me lose it. So I started texting like crazy. My ex got so mad she told me she wanted to stop talking to me. I realize I have issues beyond my ex (confidence, low self esteem) that I'm going to see a professional about, and I understand that. My co-worker sent me a forward of her email convo with my ex apologizing for her involvement. and here is a little snippet of it.
"That's fine. I suppose it was a good thing because it sounds like you got through to him, I really hope so. He's really turned into a basket case and its really upsetting. Anyway, I do want to put this out there even though it's my personal business, I was at my girl friend's house studying last night and I wouldn't dare sleep at some guys house I just met. Especially since I still love "me".

What do you think?

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If you want to get back with her then continue to work on your issues, and if she loves you then she may give you a second chance...but the ball is ultimately in her court since she broke it with you...I think if you get your self esteem back she'll be wanting you again, not the other way around.

Even if you don't get back together at least you'll be better person for it.

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Great answer