Please advice is needed.?

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Ok here is the thing, I was at home yesterday and my brother, (who is an utter idiot) came into the room, which I alas have to share with him. He changed the TV, under my breath I said ****, next thing its a kick in the jaw for me, now my right side of the jaw hurts with excruciating pain, now I cannot eat properly, I have not even seen the doctor, my mum does not care. She always says im selfish and even goes to calling me a Jew, she only wants things for herself, A prime example of a hypocrite. Moreover she made spend with a sense of peer pressure to get insured on my brothers car, Just so I can drive her when she feels I have to, I don't even get a chance to drive the car which is my brother's the culprit.

I sometimes feel like I have been taken advantage of to no extent. Please help, what do i do. I have been hit by him, he likes to control everything. Either he will tell me to get off the computer, change the TV whenever he wants to, has no respect for me. If I am asleep he will do anything without a little bit of respect, to such a degree that it appears like he has this feeling that I am not even there. I cannot do anything because he is bigger than me, I am 17 skinny and can't really do anything, whereas he is near enough 20 and will beat me if I say even a word, and I have felt the consequences when I do say or try and speak up for myself.

Any advice given will be very helpful, and of course much appreciated.

Telling the police or social services is not an option, I would be kicked out of the house if I went to such an extent!!

Answer 1

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Well, it sounds like you're brother is a brat (no offense). Try spending more time at your friends' houses. Don't be afraid to call the police because it sounds like your situation is very bad. Not to get into your personal business, but are your parents divorced? Maybe you can go live with your dad? or move in with a friend for a while? Get some help from your local church (even if you don't normally go to church). Usually, they are a great help with things like this. Do you have a trusted friend who is stronger than you (it can be a guy)? Ask him to possibly talk to your brother. If none of this works, you need to call the police. Getting kicked out is probably better than living like this. Chances are, you might be moved to a foster home until you are 18 and can live on your own. I hope things get better for you. I don't know if you're a Christian, but know that I'll be praying for you.

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Thanks, although I do not have that many friends, 2 in fact really. Also I do not go round their house much, and also im muslim. I really do appreciate you advice though, thanks! :)

Answer 2

watch ufc. arm bar your way that ***** then teabag em to victory

Answer 3

Your brother is trying to toughen you up.

You said it yourself , 17 skinny and can't do anything.

That is a defeatist attitude son. You want his respect, demand it

He is bossing you around and treating you with no respect to make you mad. He wants you to fight back so you get some self respect. I have seen brothers do this dozens of times.

Next time he gets physical you do it right back. You hit him with everything you got and don't stop until he does.

Act like a man an be treated like one. Act like a scared boy and you get dominated.