How can I tell my friend what I really think about her?

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My friend Katie, and I have been friends for a year. She lives at one end of campus, I live at the other end. Her roommate came stopped by my dorm to introduce herself, and told me the dorm building she was in. She said that I should text her.

She didnt give me the room number. She said that Katie has missed me.. And that I should text her more, and come visit her.

Let me tell you something about Katie, when we first met she was very flirty, and twirling her hair, smiling and giggling alot with me. Then we lost contact, and I found out she had a boyfriend. I see Katie from time to time, but she acts like she doesnt want me around. She treats me like a pile of crap. She always claims she is 'too busy' to spend any time with me, and obviously cares more about her boyfriend, then her other friends. I thought I had feelings for her, but I dont know what I was thinking.

Then her roomy came Friday night, and said she missed me and I said "I have been very busy lately with my two jobs, and I understand Katie is busy with her boyfriend, and that she has had tough classes as well." I added "It would be great to catch up sometime".

Her roommate said to come visit them, and she did not tell me the room number, but she told me the building.

The thing is I really like Katie, and I think she liked me too, at least thats what my friends were thinking. I just believe that a good friendship makes a good relationship. Perhaps I missed my chance. I am still friends with her, but she acts like she doesnt want me around her, ever since she got a boyfriend.

Do you think Katie's roommate will stop by again?

The roomy considered me a good friend of Katie's and that I am always welcome at their dorm. I dont know if is worth it or not?

I want to talk to Katie's roommate most importantly. I want to talk to her, and I plan to ask her "What is with Katie lately?" "Do you know why she is acting this way". I also plan on telling her "If she keeps on treating me this way, I dont know if I want to be her friend anymore"

Answer 1

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Forget Katie, as a matter of fact, forget anyone who acts like they like you then they start treating you like crap the minute they get a bf, these people are called users, looks like she was just using you for target practice, then she got a man, now you don't exist, do NOT allow Katien in your life again. She's shown her true colors, you don't want that.

Here's the deal, Katie isn't speaking to you anymore, but her roomy is..hmmm...interesting, wouldn't you say?

Do i think the roomy is going to stop by again? Affirmative, definitely, its the ROOMY who wants to talk to you. Wake up, bro.

Don't talk to her roomy about her, and when her roomy talks about her don't join in and don't react. The roomy is ok with being a go-between, which is pretty sad if you ask me. You don't have to play this game.

Don't use a go-between, it is not at all masculine and its always a bad idea no matter where you are or who's involved. It always goes badly. Don't play that.

The roomy considered yo a good friend of Katie's? Who cares what the roomy considers you, Katie still treats you like a pile of crap no matter what this roomy "considers" you.
The roomy says you are welcome at the dorm? Looks like the roomy wants you. Katie's long gone.

That's the truth, decide what to do with it.

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i was once a go-between, never again

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Answer 2

I got a friend , we met in a drama lesson on a weekende, im his best friend, he was mine but know hi not my best friend , he acts strange as something was wrong before he went on holiday he was fine when his back hes gone strange! i feel so upset :(

dont know what to do, i just wish he talks to me properly!