How come i feel lonely even if i am with people?

Question

:( i dont know why i just still feel lonely, maybe its because i feel unloved because i dont have that many friends or because i dont have a boyfriend to love me so i feel unwanted?
help please

Answer 1

I know how you feel. it's an inner feeling that no one "seems" to get.. What I can say is that you need to remind yourself that your not alone. You just said your with people so you have friends.. and I assume their real friends? Well just think of what it would be like without you in your group of friends, I'm sure you contribute to the conversation and they like you right?

See that right there shouldn't make you feel alone. Just know that as alone as you might feel with these feelings that you never are alone. I'm a guy and I feel the same way sometimes like you I've never had a girffriend and I feel like this empty soul walking around in public... but.... Keep your chin up! Life has a way of making things work in your favor and make you feel good it all begins with BELIEVING it will happen and of course, optimism.

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Answer 2

Loneliness is part of life, it's can be a venue for growth & maturity.

When lonely, we are invited to look interiorly so that we can move forward in life, truthfully and meaningfully.

What comes to our life has meaning, learn how to profit from it.

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Answer 3

If you're shy, it's hard to feel connected to other people. Like you're an observer, not really a part of the conversation. It's easy to get overlooked. When you're with friends, try starting a conversation about something you all have in common. Push yourself out of your comfort zone. You have to feel good about you-a boyfriend is not going to fix that.

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personal experience

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