My husband sees me as a little girl?

Question

I have moved country to be with my husband, we live together, work in the same building and i don't drive. He does everything for me, pays bills, nags me to clean, drives me everywhere. He is a really nice guy though i promise. How can i be more independent as its really affecting our sex life now....i dont think he sees me as a sexual being at all anymore. Please help.

Answer 1

Become more independent. Learn to drive. Develop outside interests.

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Answer 2

Be straight up with him. It is that simple.

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Answer 3

consult an immigration attorney. you have rights.

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Answer 4

Stand up for yourself. Tell him how you feel. Don't allow him to control you.

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Answer 5

Do some things that don't require driving by yourself. For example take a class, or go to a meeting or lecture.

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Answer 6

Find a hobby course at community college. Studying is a great way to meet people and gain independence.

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Answer 7

well....may be get a new car..change jobs...or just after work leave him alone and have some well deserved alone time with some friends or just by yourself...

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Answer 8

take control

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