Ok this is long and has many questions but please help!!!!?

Question

Ok so today i had a really bad day. :( with friends and like guys and ugh it was just a mess.. So #1 i have lots of friends i really do but like how could i get some of the freshman to like mee... im in 8th grade.. and they just hate our "grouip" because like idk why we never did anything to them!!! what should I do for that? second question... ugh. Well theres this guy... who lead me on twice.. theres something about him that i just cant let go of. all we do is text though. i know its not good to live off of txting but we never talk in person. we rarely get the chance too. he has a gf but he says hes always liked me.. but like i said he has lead me on twice so what should i beleive.. and i thought that like he was being for real but when i think about it deeply i just dont know what to beieve anymore! So like what do you think? he has said some thing thats made me feel really good inside but ugh what should i believe. Like am I thinking this is serioust and he is thinking oh whatever ill just tell her these things to make her feel good. i dont really wanna ask him... cuz i have before and he says he means it. but i just dont know what to believe with him having a gf and all!! help!! please good answers!

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

DONT flirt with him if he has a girlfriend! if she dumps her for you,why shouldn't he dump you for some other girl later on?

Never flirt other girl's boyfriends!
Its not smart and its slutty

Answer 2

If he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you a lot, then you should know that he probably won't be faithful to you if you do go out with him, so yeah not a good idea to me.

Answer 3

if he is going to dump her for you. whats going to stop him from doing it to you. DONT DO IT!!!! you will get over him

Answer 4

well what I can tell you about that boy is that he doesn't seem a good guy to me because if he has a girlfriend he is not suppose to flirt with you, so I guess he doesn't really care about relationships that much... so right how he is talking to you behind his girlfriends back, and you don't know if he is talking with some other girls as well... so I wouldn't really trust that guy.. and my advise for you will be to forget about him... I am sorry but he seems a jerk to me.. I know it's hard to her all this because I have already been throw all this but trust me it will be much better just to forget about him.. and I know it's hard and it may take a long time but it is the best thing you can do... good luck

Answer 5

#2 wow u use the word like alot.....jk...im in the same grade as u and ive gone through similar things.....here its is from my perspective....if hes not being faithful to his currnet gf...Like the other person says, what makes you think hell be faithful to you? thats right he wont....and then youll get upset and break up with him or watver...jk! but i would just wait till he breaks up with his gf ( which will happen soon) and just be friends with him for now....so u can c if u can really be his gf later on if possible. if hes in sports try to be at his games...or text him if he'll be somewhere.....but dont be too serious with now remeber, just be friends.....and if he keeps messing around with u and telling u that he likes u.....tell him that its not cool if u going out w/ someone else and liking u.
#1 I aslo have a crush in the 9th grade....bu treally if one of the freshman boys really do like you....wouldnt u have noticed? if 1 grade is sucha big deal in you school district then try to get to know 8th grade boys better or get a 9thy (9th grader) who doesnt care.but really....common wats the difference?
and if they hate ur group then try make friend w/ them without ur group along ur side....maybe its them. im not saying you should ponder away frm ur friends its just that evryone needs a break.

and heres some advice......dont stress out about boys to much.....u have alot of friends, so you r somewhat popular, so if a boy really liked u then wouldnt he just say so? trust me i get...... i spend at least 20 mins in the bathroom trying to fix the eyeliner b/c of them.....but really they would just say so or ask their friends to say so...just be friendly and flirty but not to flirty where its annoying....just in a nice way.

Source(s):

experience....watching drama in the making