How do I get him to stay HARD?
I just met this guy (He's 21 and I'm 19) and we went back to his place after an amazing date. We were making out and he got an erection but said "I'm not going to f _ _ k you tonight". We continued to make out and when he got hard again we had sex for a little while (after a little coaxing out of me) but we stopped after 20 minutes or so because we didn't have a condom and I was having multiple orgasms (WOW!) He pulled it out after and then we just lay there talking. He told me that this was the first time he'd ever had good sex (even though he didn't even finish!!!). He told me that he has a hard time getting it up and that's why he told me he wasn't going to f _ _ k me. He said he was really nervous that he wouldn't be able to please me and that he was worried that he wouldn't be able to stay hard. He said he was so glad we had sex because it showed him that he can get hard. He then proceeded to tell me that he had very bad sexual experiences. He said, "I've never told anyone this and I just want to lay it all out for you. The first time I tried having sex I was 19 and my d _ _ k didn't work. Then I tried again a few times and it didn't work. I tried it another time and it kind of worked. I haven't had vaginal penetration in 2 years But with you it's just amazing. Where have you been all my life?" I didn't really respond and we just lay there talking (He told me he's never been in love because he's never trusted anyone and he also told me that he really trusts me) After a while things started heating up again and we were making out. He got hard really fast and stayed hard for about 10 minutes until he put it inside of me. When he put it inside it felt amazing for a minute or two then it started getting a little bit soft so I took it out and gave him a ******** for a couple minutes until he was super hard again. He put it inside and it was hard for a minute again and then it started getting soft. So I whispered in his ear "lay on your back" so he did and I got on top of him and gave him a ******** for 10 minutes (He was really embarrassed by this point and he was like "no, it's okay") I really wanted him to c_m so I was about to put it in my mouth but then he pulled me away and said "It's not going to happen tonight, maybe I'll try". So he started to jack off but stopped after 30 seconds and looked away. It was silent for a minute or two until I said "It's okay, there will be other nights. Practice makes perfect." I smiled and he laughed. He then told me that he was sorry. I told him it was okay and he seemed fine, embarrassed, but fine. We fell asleep and the next morning I woke up to him rubbing me through my panties. Needless to say, I am so attracted to this guy but I need to know how to get him to stay hard. He's practically a virgin but he got me to multiple orgasms (which usually takes FOREVER) in less than 20 minutes. He's so thick and 10 inches long and he makes me so wet. I need some advice. Do you think it's just performance anxiety or something else?