What is the best way to break up with my scorpio man of 3 yrs?

Question

Well scorpios are known to to not want to let go so what is the best way to do it without any hard feelings? I still would like to remain friends with him, but I have realized I need more out of him .... emotionally. and personally he is just not ready like im ready so I must move on

Answer 1

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dont expect to remain good friends with the scorpio - often they are incapable.

There probably is no good way to do it as they take it to heart and get pretty vengeful.

Just let it out.

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Straight to the point and I could tell it was an honest answer

Answer 2

I wonder what sign you are? That might be interesting!

I have dated 4 Scorpio males, and I must warn you. When you leave him, he will replace you overnight and then have a desire to rub your face in the fact that you were not so great and SHE is the perfect woman. Depending on how strong you are, this could be painful.

I lost one Scorpio by not kissing him goodnight after he gave me a gift. I lost another by becoming angry with him because he bragged about how much he made and how little I made. I lost anothe by becoming frustrated with his lackc of warmth and attention, even though he claims he "worked sooooo hard" to keep me. The other is still hanging around and I hope he finds someone else soon.

Simply tell him this is not working for you and you wish him well. Do not try to be friends with him, and do not seek him out 6 months from now to be your friend. He will all too gladly give you the deepest blow to your self esteem and then laugh the entire time.

Be prepared, when you let go, to make it your final goodbye. No friends.

Answer 3

I don't know, but saying you still want to be friends suggests that you are the one who can't let go.

To me, breaking up is simple: you break up and that is it. Trying to remain friends is only an unnecessary complication. Besides, I couldn't for the life of me just stay friends with someone I'm sexually extremely attracted to, and it's too easy to share the bed again with an ex partner because you know what you can expect (and you know where they've been and whether or not they have diseases... )


Try it with this guy. Chances are that he'll want to completely break off all contact as well for the same or a similar reason.

Answer 4

well tell him the truth...and i know its way easier said than done!! tell him exactly whats ur problem...and make sure u let him know....how much u wanna remain friends and how much u like him....as a friend. and.....U want to keep in contact but u just can't further on this love relationship. things like that...be positive and tell him the truth!! scorpios HATE it when u lie to their face...because they WILL ...WILL find out sooner or later...! and that WILL get them mad...obviously...scorpios as they are...will sting and be seeking for revenge...and they will be really hurt majorly.......the reason i say that..is because i do have a scorpio ascendant and sun in cancer, moon in pisces...so i'm quite a water person....and i am a lot like scorpio...and i would be hurt if u didnt tell me the truth.....
good luck...and be yourself!
i know its easier said than done...but u gotta do it someday!!
x

Answer 5

worst thing you could do is lie, explain exactly why and be completely honest with him. He will try to hurt you emotionally if you lie or decieve him. Best bet is to tell the truth rip off the band aid quick tell him you want to be friends and be done with it.

Answer 6

well if you wanna remain friends just be honest with him, we value honesty greatly.

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scorpio chick

Answer 7

start cheating on him with a family member
-his family, not yours