Is my boyfriend trying to tell me that I can't go to college?

Question

My boyfriend went to a community college for one year and then transfered over to a state university that is 30 minutes away.

I will be going to the same community college that he went to and then transfer to the same university he goes to. I'm basically doing the same thing as him.

When he was driving me back to my house, I was telling him about how I'm going to college and will be going to the same university afterwards and he says "Nope, you can't transfer. You're not allowed to. You can't do that. You'll have to start everything over if you go to my university (he didn't have to start over when he went there! and you don't and he knows that) You can't go to that college."

I can't remember what else he said but it sounded like he was totally discouraging me from going to college. Like he was trying to tell me that I can't go to school and trying to manipulate me into not going.

Is my boyfriend trying to tell me that I can't go to college?

Answer 1

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Well if he is dump him immediately. He should be supporting you no matter what your decision is. He isnt worth your time if he is telling you where you can go to school.

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fff

Answer 2

I don't think he's trying to keep you from going to college in general, I think he's trying to keep you from going to HIS college. Maybe he wants space, and he thinks you guys will be attached at the hip if you're going to the same school.

Answer 3

maybe he doesnt want you to do the same thing he did, if you can get in somewhere else that you would prefer, go there! I wouldnt go to a college just because my girlfriend goes there, gotta think about your future!

Answer 4

He's trying, yes. I hope you're looking for a replacement. He sounds like a petulant little boy which is not flattering at college age.

Answer 5

Probably, call him out, that's rude of him.

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Answer 6

It sounds like he doesn't want you there... he's not telling you that you absolutely CAN NOT go to college, he's just doesn't want you to go to HIS.

Answer 7

Ask him point blank. nobody knows whats going on in his mind.

Answer 8

Nobody know what he want!

Answer 9

It sounds to me like he just doesn't want you in the same school as him