Is this girl for real or just messing around?

Question

Alright so this girl at school I really like gives me hugs everyday when she sees me. I befriended her brother not too long ago, so she is kinda off limits, but she is really nice and I like her. Today she had a birthday party but didn't invite me since her brother would not let her invite one of HIS friends to HER party. Every time we text each other she puts smileys in every text. She says "I like you" and always tells me that I should not have to put up with the girl I'm with now and that I deserve better. She used to be very "friendly" with allot of guys but lately I have not seen her hug anyone but me. Today I told her I was going to get a small birthday present for her and told her that it might make her day but won't last very long. (I was hoping she would guess candy) but instead she said "I hope it's a kiss". I know she has a BF but we both casually talked about how we are not serious with our partners. What I want to know from you fine people is if she is serious about it or just is a slt.

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Ohh also when I watched a movie at her house (she has a projector and 10 legit movie theater seats) she sat in my lap, messed with my hair, and fell asleep on my arm. She is being so open that I think she is just messing with me. That's the whole reason I'm concerned because it's too good to be true.

The reason for my question is because she is drop dead gorgeous (won the miss teen Texes award) and her brother and one of his friends said she is always like this. She is too open with me that's why I'm worried.

Answer 1

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dunno if you have thought about this but what if she does the same to you. If you were dating and she started hugging another guy telling him that she liked him. I dont know how old you are but thats just not right of her to be flirting with another guy and telling him that she likes him. Think about it before u make your move talk to her brother too. Good luck

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That's what I was thinking about and that's why I'm having such a hard time deciding. Thanks for helping me out here. I'm going to confront her and hope for the best.

Answer 2

nut up or shut up i have a simular problem u just gotta ask her out even if she has a boyfriend she can dump him any time but do it casualy..dont make a scen...and if her brother is a friend he will let u date his sister...if not start to lift weights kick his @$$ then get the girl.......best of luck to ya

Answer 3

Maybe she is for serious.Maybe shes afraid of being alone as for you both arn't single, But maybe she wants yu to'accept' her before she breaks up with her other bf. And she does really like you and by the situation Wants you all to herself.

Answer 4

lol YEAH she's practically asking you for it, giving ALL the hints possible..definitely go for it, but you might have some trouble with her brother tho..make sure it's worth it.

Answer 5

I think she really likes you and Is hinting that you . She might be wondering why you havnt noticed . Or she could be wondering if you think of her that way .

Answer 6

It seems that she has given you every type of hint possible.

Do you need to be hit by a bus?

You need to deal her brother in all this so be prepared.

Answer 7

MAN,SHE IS SO IN TO YOU!

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Answer 8

In my opinion, if you have a BF or GF... it's obviously serious enough not to cheat... period. You should talk to her on a serious level about the relationship, and determine if you want to be together. Then, if you both want to be together, break it off with the other GF / BF.

It sounds like from your conversations with her that she is very interested in you, but may be in fear of her brother. If the friendship with the brother is more important than the girl, then stay away from her in a romantic manner. It will most likely damage the friendship.

Answer 9

You both need to break up with the people you are currently with. You havent cheated physically but you have emotionally with all the flirting. If you are both single I see nothing wrong with the two of you being a couple regardless of the fact that her brother is her friend. As long as you treat her well and dont hurt her feelings he really shouldnt have anything to be mad about. If you are worried that her actions are less sincere and are afraid that they dont mean anything other then casual flirting id just straight up ask her.. just be like yeah so i was thinking maybe we should break up with ____ and ____ so that we could date.. see what she says, if she says nah, then id stop flirting with her so much and concentrate on the g.f that you already have. Good Luck