How do I get over my ex? (kinda of long)?

Question

My boyfriend and I broke up. While we were together, I let him live in MY house, I let him spend MY money, I cooked for him, did his laundry, let his friends stay over, and had sex with him. I put so much more into the relationship than he ever did. And throughout the whole time we were going out he was talking to his ex girlfriend on a regular basis, and I didn't think anything of it because he told me that they were "just friends" and I believed him because I trusted him. He flew down here to live with me, flew home because we broke up, now he's flying to his ex's to be with her. He talked to her with her while we were together, and she's said so many terrible things to/about me, and he never stuck up for me once or told her to stop. How could I be so stupid? I gave him everything, and I got nothing back. I'm hurt, sad, angry and most of all I just feel SO STUPID. I feel like a total idiot.

Everyone is telling me that I deserve better, but I really feel like I don't. If someone as terrible as him doesn't want a girl like me, than how am I worthy to be with someone better?

Answer 1

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Stop beating yourself up. You were human and made a bad mistake. That is not who you are and deep down you know it. He does not deserve you.

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thanks, that's actually really inspiring, deep down I DO know that's not who I am, and now I know better.

thanks for all the answers!

Answer 2

you deserve wayy better, becuase your a better person already by being there for him letting him live in your place eat your food and you do his laundry and be a hotel for his friends. girl you are strong and you are sooo much better than him. remember somebody will appreciate the things you do.

Answer 3

I think you should focus on other thing like pick up a hobby or make a goal like try to lose 5 pounds in a week. That guy has issues and he needs to grow up and get a life and someday no girl will but up with him.

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Answer 4

What a Lazy **** how did he stick wit you for dat long, yeah I guess you were a bit stupid to "stay by his side" N E way Y R U still thinking about him I would've thought you'd be relieved to get rid of him. Just MOVE ON

Answer 5

You should date a lot of other guys.

Answer 6

Yes you are stupid. Can I be your boyfriend?

Answer 7

Just put that one down as your 'I was used' relationship. Don't do it again.

Answer 8

remember this quote, "The individual who is involved in the relationship the LEAST (you boyfriend), has the most control"

and its true think about it. He put nothing into the relationship and when yall broke up it worked out for him cause he moved on to the next girl with out feeling anything sad and emotional. While you are mourning the loss feeling sad and you put in nearly all.

Bu he'll get whats coming to him though, that bad karma will come to him

Next time you in a relationship be involved the least. Yes you deserve better. Which is why I offer you my wisdom to only go for the people that has as much as you have