HE HurT mE BUT I STILL LOVE HIM HELP!!!!?

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I love this guy alott and he hurt me so baddd- we've been friends 4 years and he told me he loved me last year and i loved him too ii moved this year and niw he calls me baby and hunny and talks about doin"things" to me but he i found out he's datinng someone--- we;ve always wanted to go out but the time was never rite and wen it was rite i movedd-- im really hurt that he didnt tell me he's dating someone and he knows how much i love him I CANT STOP CRYING BECAUSE I FEEL SO BETRAYED BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I STILL WANT HIm

Answer 1

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This is the way it goes.These are boys.If this is what he did after four years...I know how you feel.But this is only the beginning.I know you long for him, but you should know that things will never be the same again.This is what guys do.You should never be surprised.He might have feelings for you, and yet date someone else.I know you feel disappointed and betrayed, but this is a sign that you should move on and think about yourself.You deserve better than that.STOP CRYING , TEARS ARE USELESS.HE DOESN T DESERVE THEM!

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ty so much p.s bf means best friend lol mayb i shuld have clarrified it but we've always sorta dated though but THANKSS

Answer 2

He's a player, simple as that. I don't think there's anything wrong with being friends with him, but stand too close to the fire and you'll get burned.

Answer 3

awww, dont cry love. Everything will be okay. If you want to clear up the situation, its best if you just tell him you found out, if it is true that he is dating another person, then he wasnt a good bf to do something like that to you and he doesnt deserve you for that. Maybe he always just wanted to be friends. Either way, talk to him and tell him how you feel, but dont burst out into alots of emotions, guys really hate that and dont know what to do, so they usually act nonchalant or cool about it, and that gives the girl the idea that they dont care.. but anyways if you dont do that, then i think you should just leave it, and forget about him, i had a bf i really loved, he didnt cheat on me or anything but we slowly faded away and i was so sad and depressed but tho it took a while, that feeling did go away, and after a while i didnt feel bad anymore. Dont worry, it'll all work out, and if it duznt there are plenty of other guys in the world, im sure theres one that would be perfect for you if it isnt your bf of now.

Answer 4

I understand you have feelings for this guy, but once you moved away--out of sight, out of mind. You're just having withdrawl pain from being away from him and coming to terms that's it's probably over. He sounds like he only wanted you for "doing things" with. Lucky he didn't get the chance. Is that the kind of relationship you want with a guy? Develop some self respect and stop being so focused on what you can do and give guys. Make them work for your attention. Make them respect you and what you have to offer. This way you'll have a boyfriend who won't be so quick to diss and dismiss you.

Answer 5

i say he is not good person fr u................let him go............... u'll get 100s of better him...........,

Answer 6

for the love of god, get over yourself. Listen to your banal whinging. 'i love him and i cant stop crying'. Just remember, when you are at home balling your eyes out, he is at home balling some other chick. Get over it and move on. painful