Please help me, this is very important!!!?

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Please help me decide what i should do?
Should i stay in Australia for my boyfriend. I received a job at a firm in New York city and have an apartment on the upper east side and as much i wont to go i have this voice in the back of my head saying dont go. We have been together 4 years and are very stable . with his job he wont be able to come over for a year due to work commitments. After then he can live with me. Im 25 and he is 29. Should i go and hope he doesnt cheat on me?? I love him so much and i dont want to loose him and Its not him that i don"t trust, its all the other girls. A year without his girlfriend, they will try anything.
His brother hinted that he has a ring in his top draw and said that he may only give it 2 me if i stay, i don't know if his brother is telling the truth and i don't know if going to New York will put that ring on my finger or keep it in the draw forever.

Answer 1

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follow your heart if you dont feel comfortable then dont theres more important things like happiness if i were you id stay think about it & follow what you feel its the positive feelings you need to follow

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thanks

Answer 2

Talk to him and get his opinion. But ask yourself what is more important the job or him. You can always find another job but can you fall for another man. =)

Answer 3

sorry you lost me at this sentence
Its not him that i don"t trust, its all the other girls"