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cut along story short ex girlfriend broke up with me after being together for 2 years...spending many happy times together she talked of having my kids etc...and she wouldn't let me off the phone with out me saying i loved her... she broke it off saying she hadn't been feeling herself lately..so i played it cool and was like ok do wat u want....and then she said i no this sounds sad etc but i can see myself settling down with you and marrying you etc but im not ready for all that yet your all i have known... cut anti her bit short she is now with a boyfriend, even tho she has been desperately trying to get in contact with me...me ignoring it...so i finally said wat do you want she said can we talk i lost like my closet friend in all this to...and it sucks etc...now is there trouble le in paradise? she claims she is completely over me and doesn't fancy me etc..so why all this fuss i have stayed away...she should be all wrapped up in her new guy and i should be the last thing on her mind...why all this after four months of not being together? i said to her i cant be friends sorry...she cant have her cake and eat it as well... its like she wants the friendship without sex...i told her don't contact me etc...will she try again do you think? thanks for reading!

Answer 1

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This chick sounds dizzy, dude. She is playing with your mind and you are right, if she broke yp with you and claims to be over you then move on. You deserve better. she is a heart collector, wants a spare tire in her trunk in case her current romance goes flat.

You don't need this. Don't answer her calls unless you still love her. If you still love her, she'll sense it and try again but she hurt you once then she'll hurt you again and again and again if you give her the chance.

If your love for each other is real though and you're just both too young, and she just needs to try out some other relationships and you do too, then maybe you two can try again when you get out of high school. If its meant to be, it will be.

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Answer 2

Congrats, dude. You dodged a bullet. She dropped you for what she thought was greener pastures, then realized she screwed up. Now she's doing the same to her new guy. If you become friends, you stand a chance of getting back together with her, then going through all this crap again. Cut your losses and don't go anywhere near her.

Answer 3

girls are really easy to understand after you date them for about four months. when she told you she wasn't ready that meant one of two things that she was a. trying to get with someone else. b. she was falling out of love with you or c. she just couldn't be with you any more. ive noticed that when girls say that they can see themselves for the rest of their lives with you and then they turn around and go out with someone else they are just making the breakup easier on them and not caring about you. if she trys to call again just have another girl answer your phone let it go to voice mail or whatever but the best thing is to move on. it hurts yea every girl does. but its when you make yourself stronger such as college looks, friends girls become really jealous. i dated this girl for four months she got me love drunk and made me think she was the one but really in all actuality she was just my first piece of ***(not to be rude) but she said she was going to kill herself if i did not want to be with her. i left her she did not kill herself and she is with a new guy today. but ive gotten into college i have a well paying job and i have a house and she is begging for me to take her back. and i wont do it because she threw away the best thing she had going for her. just let time heal you up and you will be all good again i promise there are 1zillion girls and you only get one ha ha unless your a polygamist.

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Answer 4

duuuude...i so feel you...almost this same exact thing happened to me..together for 2 years...wanting kids together...marriage, lost alot of my good friends...and she just flipped herself around and broke it off and said her reason was she didnt want a boyfriend at the time...2 weeks later she was with another guy...and she wanted to be friends with me....i told her to f off...no sense on wasting time on these girls man...just dont worry about it...she one day will realize wat she did was wrong and just do the heisman on that hoe haha......just ignore her man...girls become beeches...and they change...dont kno why...just ignore her

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my own personal expeirence