First Sex.... How Long shall a girl wait??? how many dates?

Question

After how many dates shall the First Sex Happen?
...i like this guy and.. I'm going out with him tomorrow.
I'm not too conservative but defenately cannot be too easy.
can you help me with this? I mean i know guys start to push a bit, right?

I'm old enough.... 17. Turning 18 soon, but just foreget about it and answer as how it happens usually.

Answer 1

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hiya, you don't want to jump into bed for quite a while yet.because if you have sex with every guy you go out with,then you will be known as a slag.and no girl wants that name.if the guy is pushing you for sex,the n its telling you he is only after sex,so he is a loser/user.to have sex with a guy the n you should wait till you both have strong feeling for each other.also lots of girls when they lose there virginity, wish they did not lose it.as then when they find the right guy,and they want to marry, she as lost the most Precious thing she as to give her new husband, her virginity.so its up to you when you have sex with your guy,but take a few minutes to think about what i have wrote.be care full.xx

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mum to 3 grown up kids.married 43yrs.xx

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Thanks. I'll take that into consideration

Answer 2

First, let me get my father side out of the way and tell you to wait until you're married.

Okay, now that I've got that done, let me go into my real answer.

You'll find out the longer you wait, the more rewarding it will be. You don't want to go out on a few dates, give it up, then find out that he's a jerk. If he starts to pressure you, don't give in. If he's just in it for the sex, you don't want him anyway. I would advise that when you do decide to, make it something special, not just 30 seconds in the back seat of his dad's Chevy minivan.

Talk to him about it when you do decide. Maybe he's scared and want to wait too.

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voice of experience

Answer 3

I think you'll just know when the time's right. You're young but not too young and you know yourself when you feel ready. Don't let him pressure you. Tell him the more he pressures the longer he'll have to wait. If he's not too pushy and tells you it's ok whenever you're ready - son't keep him waiting. It shows he respects you and you've nothing to worry about. Of course you have to worry about protection from pregnancy AND STD's. Be careful. Good luck =)

Answer 4

Wait till you get married.

Do you want to have children without a father and have to support them on your own?

Do you want to feel used becasue you have slept with 50 guys and none of them want to spend their life with you?