My ex who proposed to me is making my life a living hell. PLEASE HELP!!?

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Im 26 and was with my ex boyfriend since i was 17 we broke up last year. I met someone else when we were together and hung out with him and then i started sleeping with him and we both fell in love. I planned to break up with my ex on a certain night and on the same night he wouldn't let me talk as he wanted to ask me something and sure enough, he proposed to me. I didn't want to hurt him at all but i had to end things with him not only for me but him also as i didn't love him anymore. He freaked out when i told him and he slapped me across the face. I am still with the guy i cheated on him with and my ex is still holding a grudge. We both have mutual friends and he says nasty things about me and tells people personal stories i trusted him with and what we did together and is trying to make my life hell. I've heard from my best friend that he wants me back but he doesn't act like it. My friends said they wont take sides and i try to avoid being in the same places as him the best i can but i cant stand him anymore he is a horrible person. How can i make this right? Please help?

Answer 1

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He is talking all the crap cause he still cares and was hurt. Take it from me guys are retarded. I know I am. as for an answer I say time. It heals all wounds. Hated my ex for awhile but then thought about it, rather have a damn good friend than nothing. good luck.

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Answer 2

even though he treated you bad that still doesn't give you the right to cheat on him, my husband (soon to be ex) treats me like fu*king dirt, but i don't go and cheat on him, i just divorce him LOL i have to much respect for myself as a person to cheat, its not about the husbands.


you should just dump him for good already, best advice i can give you.

Answer 3

Who cares? You are a cheater and deserve a grudge held against you, not to be slapped though. If you like this other guy so much why are you still stuck on the ex? Seems karma has done its work.

Answer 4

You should introduce him to your new guy and let them share stories, I'd bet after a few beers you'd have them both out of your life

Answer 5

I am sorry, but act a certain way and people will react in a certain way. There is nothing anyone can do about it.

Answer 6

Move away !

Answer 7

You are angry because he broke trust.
Didn't you break it first?

Answer 8

go and tell them you dont like him