Could I have ruined my chances with the guy I like?

Question

The guy that I like and I usually eat lunch at about the same time every day (but we don't eat together.) I eat with a group of my friends, and he eats with a big group of his friends. Lately, one of my guy friends has been coming over to talk to me after I'm done eating and I think that my crush has noticed this and started to become jealous. He used to look at me all of the time when we would pass by each other on campus, but these past few days he's kind of been ignoring me. I know that this is a really stupid and immature question, but I'm worried. Could I have possibly ruined my chances of being with my crush?

Answer 1

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No, but you have to make it obvious to him that he is the one you want. If he thinks you like this other guy he will just give up and move on. Let him know that you are interested in him and only him. Find a reason to talk to him and be flirty. You have to put it out there or he will have no idea that you are interested.

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Thanks for the great advice!

Answer 2

If this happens then your crush is an idiot, there could be many possibilities to whom your conversating with, and that happened to be just a friend not a future romantic partner.

Your crush thinks you are interested in the guy that talks to you after lunch.

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Common Sense.

Answer 3

If this guy did really like you hes more likely to be jealous and realize that if he doesn't take your friendship further other guys might.
I wouldn't worry too much he might become more friendly once he has had a chance to think about you and decide if he wants to go out with you.Good luck x

Answer 4

umm i dont think so..usually jealousy..as evil as it is..makes them want you more..i dont think you ruined you chance with (brandon?)..but just make it clear your not going out with this guy friend..hope it helps and i need advice from people :(

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