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I feel uncomfortable around the friends of my popular girlfriend?

Alright just to tell you I am using my sister's account.

So I asked out this girl I have always crushed on as a dare. She is beautiful and smart and nice and popular and I never thought she would say yes.
But she did.

So now we are going out and the whole school is disgusted. I'm not popular but I am not a total weirdo either, I'm just on the lower end of the social ladder and no one would expect my current girlfriend to go out with me. But I love her very much and I would not break up with her for anything.
However whenever I'm with her and shes with her friends they all give me dirty looks and don't include me. My girlfriend tries to include me but it never works. No one has any idea why she went out with me. I'm astonished myself.
Help?
  • 2 weeks ago
AMPhoto by AMPhoto
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Nah dont tell her it was on a dare, she could take it the wrong way. I agree with the first post, f**k her friends and just enjoy what you have. Ask yourself if its worth loosing what you have because of a few immature girls.
  • 2 weeks ago
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  • Reggie by Reggie
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    April 08, 2009
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    Well, you want to continue to be your self. But you must also put your self in a position of being one the guys in a way.

    Do some upgrades to your appearance and when you are talking in a group try to speak-up. Talk about things that everyone can relate to and respond. Be a peoples person.

    Because if you can't do some of these things the relationship is going to be over very soon.
    • 2 weeks ago
  • me192 by me192
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    November 07, 2009
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    Just try and tell her that it was a dare but you liked her anyway, if she still likes you then its her they should be disgusted with.
    • 2 weeks ago
  • cute♥ by cute♥
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    Fk her friends

    < 3 Dw, I bet yer cute, you just need to have some self-confidence and talk more ;)
    • 2 weeks ago
  • Tara Elizabeth by Tara Elizabeth
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    November 02, 2008
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    this sounds a lot like my best friend and her ex boyfriend
    when they started going out everyone said that she was wayyy to good for him
    i thought it, but never said it because i knew she liked him and i didn't want her to feel like i didn't approve
    he was a reeeeally sweet guy
    and he loved her, and to me that was all that mattered
    a lot of people thought she was stupid for dating him
    but her really close friends learned to like him and like their relationship

    her friends will either get used to you being with her or they wont
    her friend will choose for themselves
    just be yourself
    and it'll work out
    • 2 weeks ago

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