Is he still into me, now that the chase is over?

Question

I meet an amazing guy about three weeks ago in one of my classes
we just started talking and totally hit it off
texted me non stop for two weeks
we went to a dance together, and spent Halloween together
he finally asked me out threee days ago
and now he's no where near as attentive and cute
is he bored now that the chase is over?

Answer 1

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker

It's definitely a possibility but I wouldn't ponder on it too much, in fact he is probably relieved to know that he doesn't have to chase you anymore. But to be honest it seems like you're afraid that you are losing interest now that the chase is over...

Asker's Rating:

Asker's Comment:

very honest, and probably right

Answer 2

It`s quite normal for this to happen. That first excitement and flush can`t possibly last for ever.

You are both coming back to plain old reality.
Young married couples experience the same thing.
Going mad for sex for a couple of years then it begins to tail off. A bit of it is boredom, but most of it is just plain old back to reality.

Much of what makes life interesting are these peaks and troughs of interest and excitement.

Answer 3

absolutley not, i chased a guy for two years, and now we've officially dated for 4 months now. It's fun to chase but now it's over, this doesn't mean he's not into you, it means that the wait is over and there's no beating around the bush... :) U'll be fine

Answer 4

ohhh......dont you hate when that happenes? well, try to find that spark again is all i could say. be the friends you used to before the relationship.

Answer 5

only you can answer that ?does he really bore u that much?wat happened now if u had such great time et halloween did he take his mask off ?haha

Answer 6

dont worrie to much because most guys do that and stuff i think he ask chilled a lil coz he knows ur his but talk to him and if he it not trying and stuff dump his sorry ****

Answer 7

As they say: The thrill is in the chase.

Answer 8

The chase is fun but a relationship can be fun too!

Answer 9

well, try to plan something for you guys to do lyk goin clubbin or hangin out or somethin.

Answer 10

The chase is over now that he got what he wanted. I would peace out if I were you!

Answer 11

Well, Get more Kinkier... Well depends how old you are,
Try to be more romantic

Answer 12

Probably. Now that he's "won" you,he sees no point in acting different.
Just dump him and get it over with.

Answer 13

I hate to say, "yes", but from what you wrote, it sounds like it. Sorry.

Answer 14

well if its been a omnth than he is no longer interested. Fantasy is over. Time to break up

Answer 15

honey moon is over, get used to this treatment from him. what a bell end

Answer 16

Well Did you put out yet?

Answer 17

umm...ooh. id ask him cuz it sounds like it but if your wrongly accuse him then it might make things really bad..

Answer 18

he just want you for sex !! sorry

Answer 19

well
don't text him first
and flirt with him
be busy
have a life