GUY PROBLEMS! HELP ME WITH THIS BOY!?

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He's new and shy. I'm shy as well. He is in my Chemistry class, Gym class, and he rides my bus. He was my partner in Chem today. He and I both laugh and smile easily. :) How do I talk to him? He didn't know whether or not to come over to me to be my partner today (don't ask) but I did the little "come here" movement with my hand. Do guys like that? He came over and we set up. Another girl, blonde and beautiful by the way, was working with us and he didn't give her a second glance. However, when I lit a match for the first time, for the lab, I jumped back because I got a little scared. He looked up at me in the eyes and smiled, amused apparently. Also he figured out the math part of the lab in his head and I called him smart. He smiled. Did he like that? He's just really shy and I think because he is in a lower grade, he might think that I am not interested in him. But I really am. He doesn't speak to anyone because he is REALLY shy.How do I start a relationship with him? Thanks! I heard that he has a girlfriend but I am not sure. We smile at each other a lot...

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I am a Junior and he is a Sophomore. And I already am a Born-Again Christian, thank you very much.

Answer 1

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Okay, if i were in your position, then I will probably do this.

Step 1. Ask him this "I heard you had a girlfriend." "What is she like?" This is for confirmation.

Step 2. If he doesn't have a girlfriend then ask him more questions and flirt a little bit, BUT if he does have a girlfriend then just go along with it. Ask him questions about her, but not too personal cause it might get a little awkward.

Step 3. Be happy and release a positive radiance.

Step 4 (optional). If you have a test coming up, ask him to tutor you or study together cause he is smart.

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Thanks

Answer 2

Life's Problems: One Solution Accept Jesus Christ by saying this little prayer Out-Loud, He truly is The Easy Button:

"Lord Jesus, I believe You are the Son of God. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. Please forgive my sins and give me the gift of eternal life. I ask You in to my life and heart to be my Lord and Savior. I want to serve You always." Amen

Answer 3

Well, as a very shy guy, I can kind of relate. First, it matters a little if your older then him, but not much. If hes a freshman and your a sophmore, then don't worry about it. If hes a freshman and your a junior, then he's probably really nervous. I think if you keep working with him, you'll start striking up conversations and you'll learn more about each other. The fact that you ride the bus is a plus too, seeing as how you probably live near each other. Maybe after you get to know him more, sit next to him on the bus one day. Just take it a little slow, and stay within your comfort zone and I'm sure you'll get him to come around :)

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Thats how I met my gf :D