Should I make my Mother suffer?

Question

I hate my Mother. She's not abusive or anything, but she doesn't understand me neither the rest of my family. I want to get revenge.

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I want to make her suffer because she wouldn't let me and my brother order food as there's nothing much left in the fridge. She thinks there's more food for us in the fridge, but we both don't agree with her.

Another thing is she doesn't think I'm grown up enough to go to the doctor even though I'm trying so hard. I hate her so much. I will make her suffer by hurting myself.

I hate her! I hate her! I hate her!

How could I say that? Now I'm such a terrible person. It's just that I wish she appreciate me even more instead of saying that my drawing is okay. Then she is looking down on me.

What should I do to make her even more happier?

Answer 1

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What someon else said is right. She brought you into this world, and because she is your legal guardian until you're of age, she can rip you right out of where you live.

Instead of being pissed off that she doesn't understand you, Sit yourself down with her and explain it.

If your asking her something and she gives you an answer you dont like, ask why. Reply, and dont be angry.

Revenge doesn't do anything but bite you in the *** later on. It's just bad karma you created out of negative outlooks and feelings.

Your mother i bet is not treating you condensendingly or looking down on you. You and your mother are of different decades and time periods, remember?
What she thought was SOOOO BAD back then, is a walk in the park in current times. explain that if the situation calls for it- but don't talk to your mother condensendingly or rude either. You are out of place if you do that, because she can do a lot more to you than you can do to her.

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Answer 2

No, you shuld not make your mother suffer, physically or mentally. If she is 65 or older, that is called elder abuse, and even if she's younger there are laws about abusive behavor. Besides, you wrote yourself that you don't hate her, so why not try to work it out?

Maybe you have tried. I'm in a bizarre situation where con artists defrauded my grandparents of hundreds of thousands of dollars in cash and property and still are doing it. I have all the proof I need to prosecute and sue but want to prepare it online first so law enforcement will read it and take it seriously. Two of my relatives are involved with the original criminals.

This is probably not your situation! Talk to your mother, at least, and the rest of your family if possible before it's too late, because my family no longer exists for all intents and purposes.

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Answer 3

Shut up, man. That's your mom. She brought you into the world, gave you food, clothes, and all the other crap that you're obviously ignoring right now. If she's not abusive or anything, there's no reason for you to hate her. Get revenge on her for what? Maybe they don't understand you because you're just being difficult. Maybe you need psycology (and I'm not tryna offend you, but really). If nobody understands you, you might need to go to someone who can help you figure yourself out. Loosen up a bit and be glad you don't have a mom who doesn't give a crap about you.

Answer 4

Revenge sounds like a future criminal to add to the long list in society. You don't realize what you are saying is something that is extremely ill that you need some professional help as a threat to others.

Normal people don't have hatred the way you seem to have and you need to get professional help and you sound like you are mentally disturbed in some way and blaming mom for your lack of self esteem.

Pray to The Lord for forgiveness, Honoring your parents is God's commandment. Straighten up and have nothing to do with your mom if you seem to have this burning desire for harming her.

Answer 5

No, that is the one person that gave it all to you. She didn't have to have you but she did. I guarantee she has done a lot for you and would give her life for yours'. You are talking abusively and you do not hate her. You can't hate the one person you love the most. You two just need to learn how to sit down and talk to each other and that includes listening to each other. Try looking at things from each others perspective.

Answer 6

hiya, you won't say that if she gave you every think,and you wanted for nothing.you are a very selfish child.and you don't deserve to have a mum.life is what you make it,and if its not turning out right for you ,then that's your fault not your mum's.you would be lost if any think bad happen to her.she gave you life.what really bad thing as she done to deserve such a low life as a child.book your ideas up and start showing her some respect.

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mum to 3 grown up kids.married 43yrs.

Answer 7

hi

most people hate their mom's at sometime in their life whether it be oftern or just once or twice
let her know that you want her to understand you and that she knows what you want and how you want things to happen/be done
revenge even though it sounds good at the time only makes things worse try to be as nice as possible to her and maybe she will lighten up maybe you could spend some time together (go shopping,out for lunch ect) and bond together

hope this helps,e-mail me via my yahoo profile if you need more help
xxx

Answer 8

don't say that im 14 and i live with my grandfather and every night i cry because i don't have i mom give her a hug EVERY DAY for no reason at all other than the reason that you DO love her think about it what would you do if she DIED today?

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Answer 9

Play the waiting game, she's older than you, and should pop her clogs before you - you never know, you might get a little windfall in her will.

Answer 10

You need some psychological counseling rather than revenge. If none of your family understands you, maybe it's you who has the problem.

Answer 11

You sound like a spoiled brat. What's the matter. . . mommy didn't you an allowance? You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and learn to listen. You're not going to make it in the real world.

Answer 12

You sound like Stewie.
Your mom is a human being and she has thoughts and feelings of her own. Try to understand her better.

Answer 13

Instead of seeking revenge find a solution to whatever the problem is.

Answer 14

You probably already have.
That she doesn't understand you can't be all her fault y'know.

Answer 15

I think she's already suffering enough.

Answer 16

Just remember, she brought you into this world and she can take you out. Your pretty intense, kid.

Answer 17

What kind of a ridiculous question is that? Are you insane? What a brat. Grow up.

Answer 18

kid your on crack that's your mom i hope someone beats the shyt out of you till you learn to respect her

Answer 19

like the first person said,
she brung you into the world ur lucky enough to even be here.

Answer 20

never say you hate your mother :( be glad you have a mother.

Answer 21

well we need to know why, to answer properly