Please help!! im sooo confused about this guy!!?

Question

so my best guy friend who likes me alot and i like him back, but i wouldnt wanna date him cuz hes a player, and im kinda like the type that is waiting for a good guy whos trustworthy, and im 15, and havent a had a boyfriend yet cuz im picky and think i deserve better than alot of the guys tht go to my school, and he knows this. and his friends always tell me tht even tho he dates all the hoes, he likes me alot more and respects me more. but i know he doesnt want to date me for tht exact reason, cuz i respect myself too much (so he wont get sex from me is what im saying..)
and so this weekend, he texted me after we were kinda fighting about how hes dating all these slutty girls and then lieing to me abnout not having a girlfriend when he does just so i'll go to the movies with him.and he texted: "i want u to know this, i do like u, i like u alot" and i was freaking out cuz he finally admitted to me that he liked me alot to my face, while he has a girlfreidn!!!!! wtf!!!!

so what do u think is the reason he likes me so much but wont go out with me?! and do u think hes just keeping me aorund for rebound?

and also we always give really close hugs, but recently hes been giving me these hugs where he like puts his arms really close aorund my lower waist by my butt (which he said was big last year and i got mad at him for saying tht lol, so understandable why he'd want to hug me near there). and normally, since hes tall with wide shoulders and a small waist and hips, and im short, i normally wrap my arms around hiss waist and his arms go around me when we hug.
what do u think that means? he has a girlfriend, why cant he get those kind of hugs from her?!

Answer 1

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I'd say I'm alot like you in that aspect of finding someone. As for the dude, leave him. He's bad news. He is going to screw you over so damn bad and you'll end up in a wreck. Though I'm sure it's not going to leave your mind quick(I mean c'mon how can you forget someone like that), you're just gonna have to wait till you find that right trustworthy person. He doesn't seem serious about meeting girls and just thinks he is in love with them, or heck he's just bored.

Summed up, I would advise you don't, he won't care for you, give you support and it won't last long.
If you think you can find that better person then keep searching...coz you'll find him.

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thanks! ya, i agree. i'll listen to what he says monday (when he explains to me why he lied to my face and why he likes me), but i'll know in my head that its all bullsh*t that he's saying. im not gonna believe a word he says. i can do better.
thanks again, its always nice to have a second opinion.