How do I stop myself from having sex?

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whenever my boyfriend and i see each other, we have sex multiple times. if i tell him that i don't want to, he respects that, but it always seems like i'm the one asking for it. i don't know how to not want it so badly. whenever we're together, we're almost always alone at my house or at a hotel, so it's really hard not to, and i always end up doing it anyway. afterwards, i don't have any regrets, but i just wish i didn't give in that easily. does anyone have any advice?

Answer 1

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It sounds to me like you have an addiction for sex. This is a treatable predicament and you are not alone. See a counselor or therapist & explain your situation. This is nothing serious & treatment should go smoothly with the help of your boyfriend and the therapist. In the meantime when you see your boyfriend, try doing other things that don't involve sex. In the end, it is you who must control this urge.

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thank you.

Answer 2

figure something else to do together, like go out to the movies, go out to dinner, a concert, something like that so you are just having sex all the time.

Answer 3

I agree with kms. Don't have sex be the center of your relationship.


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Answer 4

Do things to keep your mind off of it. Sex addiction can be a serious problem sometimes and get out of hand. If you enjoy it, and your boyfriend does as well, then I see no problem with it. If you're younger.. maybe 16 or so, you should probably stop having sex so much to help stop the chances of conceiving.

Answer 5

I'm not sure what the problem is?
He's your boyfriend. He's not married? Are you?
You're two consenting adults. You are both enjoying it obviously, it probably keeps you fit? So, What IS the problem?

You didn't say that HE was complaining? So, go ahead and enjoy it!

Answer 6

you can always make your plans to be doing something other than being at am empty house or a hotel!

Answer 7

if you can try going to a more public place then you shouldn't have that urge as badly.. but if you are in a hotel or a house alone then try talking and just keep the conversation moving forward then you shouldn't give in as easily.. HOPE IT GOES WELL!!!

Answer 8

I agree with the answer before me, find something you both enjoy doing other than having sex. Do you have any friends that are couples? As cliche as it sounds, couples' nights and double dates can be really fun. Whatever you choose, make sure it lessens the chance that you and your boyfriend will be alone. However, I personally don't think too much sex with your boyfriend is a bad thing, provided neither of you get bored :)

Good luck

Answer 9

go ahead and meet with your boyfriend in public places like a mall or at a park or anyother type of puvlic place instead of being in places thta are private like ur house. and if u are alone at your house having something that you can do together that active like a game. don't go with tv cuz im pretty sure it won't really last.

Answer 10

not sure what the problem is..having a strong sex drive isn't a bad thing to have..as long as you are safe..and your bf feels the same way..you already said you had no regrets..