(Kinda Long....Please Help) Girls I Really Need Your Advice With This..........?

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now heres the situation...my friend who is a girl wanted to help me find a good girl, the first girl she told me about i immediately liked, i didnt even care what she looked like, from her personality alone i was interested. now this girl is a good friend of my friend and my friend told me that she really doesnt get much attention from guys in school, now i saw this girl and i think she is so pretty. now my friend talked to the girl and told her to check me out on facebook and she did, then my friend asked her what she thought and she said she really cant say anything cause she doesnt know me but then when my friend asked if she would be interested she said yea i guess so while smiling and laughing. my friend then told me shes interested in getting to know me. she then told me to send the girl a message on facebook so this way we could start talking and i did. now me and this girl have been messaging eachother for a few days and the convo is going pretty good, she seems interested in talking with me and she was happy when i messaged her. now just recently i told her how i think she has the greatest smile and that i think she is really pretty and she responded by saying "thank you so much:))". now this is where i need your help/advice. what should i be talking about with her, cause from my friend i know that we have alot in common so i want to show her that. what things should i be saying? what do girls like to hear about that they have in common with a guy?

also how should i go about all this now? like now i plan on asking her what music she likes, then idk? for how long should i talk with her until i ask her out? i plan on having the last thing i ask her before i ask her out be like what does she like to do for fun, like do you like to go to the movies, etc. so this way then i can say like would you like to go out with me to a movie or something like that?

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It's great to have an idea of what you want to say, but don't try to over-think anything.

Talk about anything. Ask her what music genre is her favorite, but don't interrogate her.
Talk to her normally about normal situations:
"Oh man, guess what I saw on TV"

And, ask her out when you feel that you know enough about her, and her about you, and you want to continue.
Do what you feel will work. Unless you absolutely insult her race, intelligence, or heredity, then you should be good. ;)

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thanks