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I need ONE person to read THIS ENTIRE STORY AND ANSWER?? PLEASE?? ONE PERSON?

The 3 Questions are: Does He like Me anymore? Why Did He Ignore me when I didnt Kiss him? Was he lying about the whole "Billy" Situation??

So, me and my crush liked each other ALOT. He is fifteen and Im sixteen, and he is really short! He was very hyper around me. And It was just obviousis. He was very nice to me. Perfect Gentleman. Well anyway, one day, I asked him if we were "official" and He said it was up to me. Hmmmm, WHY WOULD HE SAY THAT? I already told him I liked him. Well anyway, heres what messed everything up. I was walking him home because he was running late....when he puckered up for a kiss. And closed his eyes. He really thought he was going get a kiss. I denied him turning my face away. But he walked away not saying anything. I said "maybe when it feels right".
He then ignored me!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then, I messaged him and HE said "it feels awkward and I wasnt even sure we were dating".

PART 2

Then, a month after he ignored me and broke my heart!....... he called my little brother freaking out wondering If I was dating a boy named Billy because my little brother told him I had a boyfriend. Except, I was not even dating Billy. Then, I messaged him about it. I asked him why he wanted to know if I was dating Billy. Heres what he said.

My Ex: I wanna kno cuz me and my frends thot it was billy Mahoney

Me: Why should you even care who im dating. thats really none of you buisness. In fact, that shouldnt even concern you, who im dating and what im doing should be the farthest thing from you mind, ok?? so just dont worry about it because im not worrying about who youre dating. :)

My Ex: WOAH calm down jeez and I'm not worried and I dot give much of a **** my frends wanted to kno cuz they are frends with billy and wanted to kno so calm Ur *** down

Me: Hey, Im calm.YOUR the one who called Scott freaking out like a little girl wondering who was my bf. Just shut up. Talk to me when your not so short and girly looking. I cant even believe I you used to like you. You look like your 10. Come back to me when you actually grow a set of balls and when youve hit puberty. :)


My Ex: Wow ok and to respect the frendship I have with ur brothers I'm not gonna say anything bck tht is mean even tho there are a number of things I could make fun of u for I will say this when I called ur brother I wasn't feeaking out I was asking cuz my frends wanted to kno if it was bill Mahoney ur dating cuz they are frends with him and were gonna make fun of him for dating u cuz they sed u were a nasty looking beast with weird boobs and tht u were probably a hoe cuz u hang with jessica and thts why they wanted to kno so they could make fun of billy bcuz of how much of a beast u r
So, as you can see, we had a nasty fight. We carried this on during school, and were really mean to each other. But, never in front of people. So, we fought for about a month........

Part 3<-------MOST IMPORTANT PART!

So then a month after that... We stopped being angry at each other. We had no more bitter or angry feelings towards each other. So,He started riding his bike around my house. All the time!!! Everytime I would go outside, he would be RIGHT OUTSIDE OF MY HOUSE. If my best friend and I happened to walk past his house, he would follow us on his bike!! Sometimes, He would say " Hey" and smile. But one day, he was trying to do a bike trick and hit his nutsack on his bike. Me and my friend laughed. But, I didnt mean too. I then said Hi. And he just looked at me. I guess he heard me laughing? So Then I tried adding him on myspace..he denied me. Lol. Revenge, maybe? But anyway, heres the important part. Today he sat on the back of this bus right ACROSS FROM ME. He always sits in the FRONT OF THE BUS. SINCE, HIS TWO FRIENDS WERE HERE HE DECIDED TO SIT IN THE BACK NEAR ME. And he was acting wicked hyper. Like crazy. And he was laughing at this girl in the front. And then I said to my friend "He is soo hot" I was talking about this nerdy boy. And he said "WHAT???!" I said "Nothing". He pointed to the nerdy kid...."HIM?!!" I said "What, I dont know what youre talking about?" Then he said, " Did you say Hott?" I was like"Yeahh". And he looked at me a lot when and his friends kept on looking at me and tried to talk to me. DOES HE LIKE ME?
  • 3 months ago
Caity by Caity
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1) Ofcourse he still likes you, he obviously can't get over you no matter how hard he tried.

2) He has an ego and you punctured it when you refused to kiss him, he acted like a little kid by pouting for not getting what he wanted. That's why he ignored you.

3) I think what he was saying about the "Billy" situation was true and pretty decent...he could have said far worse. Maybe his friends did want to know, but he is the one who called your brother which shows he's the one who REALLY wanted to know. Jealousy.


Good luck?
  • 3 months ago
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  • Isla by Isla
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    Okay:

    He still likes you. When a guy tries to hang around a girl or "runs" into her everywhere...that means he likes you. If you always see him that means he wants to be near you. I think he still has feelings for you.

    He ignored you after he tried to kiss you because:
    A. He didn't know you guys were serious so he was confused and then B. He thought, "Okay, so we're dating, Let me try to kiss her.

    But then you didn't let him so he thought that was confusing.

    The Billy thing is iffy...I don't know if he was jealous that maybe you were dating someone else or if he is really friends with Billy.

    But yeah, I think he misses you
    • 3 months ago
  • Marissa by Marissa
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    And with this whole story you only needed to ask if he liked you?

    Yeah he likes you.
    • 3 months ago
  • calestine by calestin...
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    its so complicated! @.@
    • 3 months ago
  • Haram Scare's Them by Haram Scare's Them
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    Should be a limit on what you can type.......PT 2 coming soon
    • 3 months ago
  • kitkatlvr by kitkatlv...
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    OK ya know what, u dont write a story that long, OK? i didnt read it and i aint gonna!! shorten it then maybe i will
    ps u keep it this long no ones gonna read it!!
    pps no offense
    • 3 months ago
  • :)! by :)!
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    Well of course he would ignore you because you turned him down when he was going to kiss you.
    I'm sure he still likes you, but don't take my word for it.
    • 3 months ago
  • asteroid vs mars by asteroid vs mars
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    Sounds like he still likes you. He was wondering about Billy because he was jealous, still liked you then as well.

    He ignored you after he tried to kiss you because you rejected him, turned him down. That would hurt a lot to put yourself out there and then be turned down. He was obviously upset and maybe a bit embarrassed because you didn't kiss him.
    • 3 months ago
  • Curtis by Curtis
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    well i read your story, but i dont really understand what u are trying to figure out does who like you the short kid or the nerdy kid and when you didnt kiss him he was prolly really really embarrassed. think how you would have felt if he turned his head u know? and he most likely still liked you because of the billy thing and he called you a beast as the comeback for the mean things you said about him a guy cant choose his height u know.
    • 3 months ago
  • foreverlaughing by foreverl...
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    well, i'm sorry about parts one and two, sounds like you went through a rough patch for awhile.
    anyway, just give things some time. thats the best answer i can give to you. at the moment, maybe he does like you, but you gotta give some time for you both to cool down.
    in the meantime, you have some questions to ask of yourself. if something like part one happens again, will you kiss him this time? because if your answer is yes, that means something. if the answer is no, you should try to prevent getting into that situation again, because you may just start the cycle all over again. but talk to him, as friends, and only as friends, and see where it goes. if he starts to get romantic with you, revert to a different conversation until you've made up your mind. then, have a serious conversation about where you both want things to go. you never know, the whole bus thing might have just been a weird coincidence. but take some time, cool down, figure out your own problems, then face your relationship (or non relationship, whatever you choose) TOGETHER. its not a one way street. and good luck! :)
    • 3 months ago
  • Live GREEN by Live GREEN
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    He may still like you, but after that UNPROVOKED insult you directed at him, slamming his height and his looks, I wouldn't blame him if he never talked to you again. You're lucky he isn't throwing stones at you as he rides by after those comments. That was cruel of you, Amber. Very cruel.
    He's either very desperate, or a very good friend to still have anything to do with you.

    You didn't receive the call from him asking whether you were dating Billy, your YOUNGER brother did. Perhaps misunderstanding other people runs in the family and your brother misinterperated your ex's vocal tenor as "freaking out", when it could have been simple excitement for his friends benefit. You don't know. You didn't talk to him then.

    The only point I don't fault you for is denying him the kiss. It was presumptuous of him to expect one and impolite for him not to have asked "May I kiss you good-bye?". Telling him "Maybe when it feels right" was acceptable.

    Again though, you lost my sympathy with those hurtful words targeting physical attributes of his that he has no control over. He proved himself to be the bigger person by not returning the insults to you. That gained my respect.

    We may never get to the bottom of how he felt here, there or then, now that you've tainted the friendly waters that flowed between you with the garbage that flowed from your mouth that day. I suspect your ex still feels the sting of those words every time he hears your name or is unfortunate enough (my opinion) to happen to see you.

    Both of you are young yet and have the advantage of time which, as the saying goes, heals all wounds. His being a more mature individual than you (my opinion) may work to your "friendship's" benefit. Perhaps once you mature and learn when and to whom it is appropriate to unleash such verbal tirades, you will then be able to appreciate him as a friend, regardless of his physical appearance or his emotional handicap (my opinion) of liking you.
    • 3 months ago
  • Midgarder by Midgarde...
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    YES, he likes you. He is a bit on the hyper side though. It is normal for young males to be confused about their feelings and he effects their feelings on them so you'll need to be patient with him if you really like him (and it seems that you do).

    go tell him you'd like to be friends and give him a hug. Tell him you're willing to be more than friends but that it'll take a while for you make up your mind about it after all that's happened in the last few weeks.
    • 3 months ago
  • Littlemissbad by Littlemi...
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    he soo definetly likes you! I think you should sit down and talk with him and maybe you can find out that he is ur love!! i hope it works out!! P.S. it worked with my bf now!!!

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    my experience
    • 3 months ago

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