Honest question for attractive looking women and how men treat them...? (is it just me or all guys)?

Question

Physically attractive people get better treatment.....

But since I'm a guy....and like all guys (want to understand the woman psych)

When I see attractive women......I always get this feeling like "I have a chance to impress her and get a little bit of attention from her".

Even though I know that attractive women aren't any different from other people.

I'm not generalizing or trying to discern people, and I'm aware beauty eye of beholder..

But I mean.....Women who are by men considered very attractive, not b/c my eyes see it, but b/c she actually is.

I don't like how I pay more attention to myself when I see women who are stunningly attractive.

Not ordinary attractive....I'm talking beyonce status.....miss america looking who get attention from men without trying.

I know it's nature, but I don't like how I'm more make more conscious effort to watch how I carry myself and try to see if she notices .

Answer 1

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This is really about power. My guess is really attractive women know it and they know how to look good, so they carry themselves in a certain way. That's powerful. You sound like someone who wants a bit of that power - that if she notices you, then that says something good about you - like maybe you're attractive and worthy too. It's ok to feel attracted to attractive people. But don't expect anything out of it. You can just admire their good looks, their fashion sense, and the way they carry themselves. In the meantime, it sounds like you might need to work on your own self-confidence. If you felt good about yourself, then what others might think or not about you will matter less. All those beautiful people will just become people, who have particular skills in how to look good and who spend way too much time on their appearance.

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Thanks Foxjacket and Memorable.

I appreciate everyone answering...

Memorable for sharing both sides

But Foxjacket nailed it....its definatly about power.

Answer 2

i dont know what you look like but i won't pay any attention to you unless i think you are attractive.

Answer 3

im a cute guy and i usualy talk to girls that r hot or cute because when i talk to girls that u know r kinda ugly no offense they tend to start liking u and girls that r hot or cute usualy have a bfriend or most wont like u just cause u start talking to them

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i think thats just me but thats how it is around here

Answer 4

all guys do that. they try to make themselves look good so that attractive girls would notice them and they can get their attention. it's only natural.

Answer 5

its only natural to want to look better around people who look good themselves. if i see a cute guy, i wanna make sure i look good too because hopefully he will notice me. if someone is average looking you think their standards are lower so you dont need to try as hard.

and by the way, just cause someone is beautiful, you still need to get to know them.

not to sound conceded but people will tell me i am pretty all the time, but sometimes the guys i like wont get to know me cause they think "im too good for them". but really, im a good girl who likes to act silly too. sometimes its only the cocky guys that will come to talk to me, and that is NOT want i like. looks can only get you so far.

Answer 6

Let me tell you some things about beauty so many people overlook.
I'm one of those ugly ducklings who grew up to be a swan. So I know what it's like to go unnoticed around so many people, then have all of these people who now notice you but couldn't see you when you were invisible.

Beauty is so....disposable. Incomplete. Impartial. Imperfect. So obstructive of perception. I have met beautiful girls who were simply a waste of prettiness. They just used their looks to compensate for the qualities they lacked. They had little to offer than their looks. Their ideas of beauty have boundaries. They can't understand that beauty is limitless. The most beautiful people I've ever met were not "Beyonce status". Fuckstatus. You define beauty. Don't let media and society's standards, society's idea of status define it for you. Begin to determine how attractive someone is by their ACTIONS, what they have to say, their interactions with others. Don't be fooled by one girl who is just a much more prettier package than another.


It's hard for me to understand your question. I get noticed by men, but I the amount of notice they get back from me depends on why they've noticed me in the first place. See? I'm looking for a beauty that's blind to the eye. More people should.