What do you all think of this ?

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im 3 years older than her. Firstly let me say that we kicked it today, and she's a free spirit like how I'm a free spirit. on monday we met, she asked me for my number and we happened to go to the same kick back that night. We were cool, I was keeping it physical but not doin 2 much. Shes saying things that girls that like you say. Today we kick it and she sits on my lap we have a great time shes laughing Im laughing applying for college **** together, than it got to where I was on the bed and I asked her to come and sit by me and she said "why so you can bust a move?" but not in a bitchy way. I said well yea and she asked if she could ask me question without me being lost for words, where I saw the relationship going, I said in a friends with benefits way but left any possibility open, she explained how society would see it, but I reassured her that it only matters how her and I see it and that I like her and shes a cool girl and she said that was a good thing to say but not in a friendly way, in a flirty way. and she said whatever happens happens in the moment.

She was saying things that let me know she likes me and I think she lowkey agrees with what I brought to the table. At the end of the night she gave me a strong hug and said we'd chill again. What do you all think?

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Answer 1

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I think that she likes you :)
If she didn't she wouldn't have hugged you or said that you'd chill again.
She obviously wants the same thing you do.
I would just take it slow and like she said,
whatever happens, happens :]

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Great answer, thanks!!

Answer 2

you kicked her?

Answer 3

She tried to make it dramatic, that sucks dude.

Answer 4

for friends with benefit scenario your a bit too involved

Answer 5

Sound like you got a good thing going.

Answer 6

I think shes going with it because she really likes you a lot, and probably doesn't want to loose you. She has fun with you, and she enjoys your company. She rather do things your way, then step up and say 'No' and possibly make things bad between the two of you.

Answer 7

Yous sound cute. 3 years is nothing. Ask her to chill again, and if all goes well make it official.

Answer 8

yeah really you kicked her?

Answer 9

I think she's sounds like a really nice girl. And I also think that it'd be a good idea to just look inside yourself for how you truly feel then decide what YOU really think of all of that. If you think you guys would last just by being friends, if you guys are friends with benefits that means she can see other guys? How would you feel about that? I'm not sure friends with benefits would suit you guys for long, but thats my opinion, like I said, it's you who decides, try thinking about it then bringing it up again with her.

Answer 10

Sounds like she wants more from you than just friends with benefits, but she doesn't want to admit it because she's afraid you'll freak out. If you really like her, why not just date her exclusively?

Answer 11

lick her face with a fat tongue. chicks love that

Answer 12

Your both immature and foolish people. Get counseling fast, before you have children.

Answer 13

Don't push it?

Answer 14

I think you shouldn't have kicked her. Your story loosened my bowels, I think.

If she forgives you though, do her.

Answer 15

... why were you kicking eachother?