Help Me Understand Please!!!!!?

Question

In real life with my friends and guys etc. some people call me really pretty, but then people on yahoo answers call me ugly some days and really pretty other days (these are in different pics).
so is it that sometimes i put up bad pictures? or is beauty really in the eye of the beholder? cos im REALLY CONFUSED, and i don't know whether to go round thinking im pretty cos i could be so so so wrong and UGLY! and yeah i have low self esteem lol
x

Answer 1

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in real life, you have to know that what i call pretty and what you call pretty is 2 whole different things. that is just because we are different, brains, thoughts, feelings, everything about me and you is different from each other. women are more given to thinking we are pretty based on how we feel when we looked in the mirror the last time. please dont judge your day on what somebody else thinks is pretty or ugly. if you are satisfied with your pic or your image today, that is all that is important for you. i dont judge anyone on here with what pic they have up, i just am interested in the question they want answered. we go through life, at least i do, day to day, dealing with the pretty/not so pretty days and feelings.

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thank you :)x

Answer 2

i know exactly how you feel. some people call me skinny, other people call me fat. we wil never be perfect to some people but as long as you are happy with your self, others should be happy too. :)

Answer 3

hey i may be wrong but i think that, people may have different views on what they think is ugly and beautiful so there is no reason to worry
hope this helps :D

Answer 4

Stop putting up pictures. Give a chance to people to have an imagination of you hiding behind the silk screen. Too much exposures leave nothing for imagination.

Answer 5

Hi It is not important that you are pretty or no .you must increase your inert power .your mind have great energy You try to bing and collect all this energy in your mind just close your eyes and think about all the world The God is great and the world is beautiful.All the people are pretty and you are one of them .For increasing your self esteem think positive about everything specially about your self , Increase your knowledge and learn another language,help to other people and work honestly
I have very good confidence and full of energy . I will give some of this energy as gift to you .Smile to me and to the world enjoy your life in each breath

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psycologic books and research about incresing self esteem in girls and women