Am I a sicko, pervert.................?

Question

I am a divorced man of 52, when my wife left, I kept the kids full time, but they are grown and married now. Daughter 25 and son 28. They both visit often and live close to me, and they like to have parties at my house, (larger house, big yard and deck, pool table, keg cooler, etc).

Anyway, they have tons of friends, and some are very HOT friends, and they dress to the tens. Well my question is, am I a pervert by looking at them in more of the way I would look at girls in Playboy and Maxim? Remember, they are all between about 22 to 30 something years old.

I have never done anything, and never would, but is just thinking that a bad thing?

Answer 1

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No.... your just a man

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Asker's Comment:

I was just wondering what others thought, turns out many people are close-minded and have double standards for themselves compared to others.
I know what I do is not wrong, every man looks at attractive women and every woman looks at attractive men, regardless of age.
Here's to attractive people !

Answer 2

No, I don't think you're a sicko!

It is perfectly natural to be attracted to woman that age. They are in their prime and are having fun! Just because you're over 50, doesn't mean you're dead! Men look, and so do women!! To me, it reinforces how healthy you are!!!

And the fact that you're so worried about it makes it even more ok!

Answer 3

there is nothing wrong with that. it is natural. we are genetically wired to want to reproduce with young, healthy women. I think if you didn't look at them like that, then you would have something wrong with you.

Answer 4

Quote: "Anyway, they have tons of friends, and some are very HOT friends, and they dress to the tens."

No, I don't think you're a pervert... just a Troll. I am incapable of believing a 52 year old man would ever say things like Anyway... or 'tons of friends'. lol My favorite was when you wrote HOT!

Answer 5

I don't think you're a pervert ... as long as these people aren't under age, it's nobody's business but your own!

Answer 6

nothing wrong with imagination, however you are out of place at that party, best to keep to yourself as much as possible, it is your place, but stay out of sight if possible, not your age group

Answer 7

YES IT IS YOU ARE 52M AND THEY ARE 22 TO 30!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

No. You are just a man. Your only 52 not dead.

Answer 9

I agree with Platinum - you sound like a TROLLING Teenager!

Answer 10

don't think of that, everything begins with a thought, then you eventually act, and that is going to offend someone. They are not there for you, they are there to use your yard, etc.
you really need to get a life if you'e hanging around picturing them like playboy. i can just see you w/ your hairy belly and shorts on, socks and sandals ''hey who wants another hamburger!'
go do something half century man. ever see that cartoon?
i know you think you will score one and hang around the younger crowd, not too embarrasing for your kids. it's either that or a new motorcycle.

Answer 11

no yor not my husband is 41 and i am 24