How Can I Make This Relationship Work?

Question

Okay, so I finally have a boyfriend! The problem is, I'm fourteen, he's thirteen, so we can't drive or anything. My mom doesn't care if I have a boyfriend, but she doesn't allow me to go to his house or vise versa. So really, the only thing I can do to stay in touch, is computer, phone, and school, or if the school is having any events. What are some other ways, or even some more tips and keeping this a good relationship? Thanks!

Answer 1

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I would suggest going out with big groups of friends, especially since you just started going out. You don't know him too well and if you were alone with him it might be awkward. Go to public places like the movies, mall, bowling alley, ect. Invite a bunch of your friends from school and just tell your mom that you're meeting up with a bunch of your friends. You said she doesn't care if you have a boyfriend, so I'd be honest with her and tell her that you are also going with your boyfriend. If she sees that you guys are starting to hangout a lot she might want to meet him, and vice versa with his parents.

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Answer 2

Got to movies. or hang out by a near by park.

Answer 3

Why don't you ask your mom to take you all to the movies or the mall or something..

Answer 4

first, expect that there is going to be a lot of immaturity in your relationship...guys mature much slower than girls and he is a already younger than you. what you are doing right now is probably the best way to keep a good relationship; not being in alone situations, just getting to know each other through group events.

Answer 5

This is how it was with this guy I like.
We weren't aloud to hang out so, we snuck out..
Just to the park though.
So, maybe get a group of friends and do something like, go bowling or something, and then, have him come and yeah(:
Good luck! :D

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Answer 6

you guys are young, so dont take it too seriously. i'd suggest group dates and stuff so you two can get to know eachother better. go to the movies, mall, park, dances, or mutual friends' houses
if you really like eachother you'll find a way to make it work out :)

Answer 7

Those are good tthings right there. just contnue to do them

Answer 8

tell your friend to double date with you