How long should i wait to have sex?

Question

im not a virgin but my boyfriend is quite a bit older than me we've been dating a little over a week how long should i wait

Answer 1

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get to know him a bit more.. its only a week. if you want to have a nice time having sex, then you should get to know him and have strong feelings for him. If you do it too early then its just gonna be sex to you, if you love him then it would be much more meaningful.. give it a couple of months.. up to you:)

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Asker's Comment:

thanks so much for the answer you helped me out i realize i should wait a bit longer and im going to he means so much to me but the sex can wait til there are more feelings between us

Answer 2

until you want him so bad you can't help it.

Answer 3

If you have been dating for a week.....calculates in mind......I'd say you should do "it" in 20 yrs.

Answer 4

Wait? You can do it whenever you want to.

Answer 5

Wait till your ready. Not too soon or he may think your a ****

Answer 6

DEFINETLY not at 14 (which your other question states your age), and not after a week, heavens no

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maybe that's how they do it in West Virginia...Charleston to be exact <.<

Answer 7

when ever you feel your ready... about a month or i so i say... but thats just me i dont know you or anything

Answer 8

Till ur married ,like the good lord wants us to do :)

Answer 9

Until you are at least 18
Until you are on birth control
Until you insist he uses a condom
Until you know what all the common STDs/STIs are and how they are transmitted
Until you know every way you could become pregnant
Until you have money in the bank to pay medical bills if your "protection" fails

If you can't pay, don't play

Answer 10

till you think your ready if he says your not putting out then he's just using you

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trust me

Answer 11

rite now

Answer 12

well for sure more than two weeks. Lets say two months. Just give it some time, what's the rush?
I slept with my hussband 4 months after I met him, and I did that before too with the men I slep with.

Give it sometime, you dont want to look "easy".
Good luck girl!

Answer 13

its up to your mind and his mind. i would wait at least 4-5 months dating him and getting it on. you have to be confortable and talking it over about it.

Answer 14

If your my grand daughter 99 years lol

Answer 15

I waited 8 months until I was more than ready to do it. I would have done it sooner like around the fifth month.

But don't do it before you are 16, most women regret it. I did it when I was 18 and he was 17.

Answer 16

Don't wait, go when you feel it would be nice.

Answer 17

its all up 2 you it you wanna wait long

Answer 18

I'd wait until I didn't think about his age. If you're not comfortable enough with each other to forget about trivial details like age, you probably shouldn't take the relationship to "the next level."

Answer 19

Talk to your mother and ask her when it will be a good time. If you are not comfortable talking to her about it, then you re not ready. Best of luck.

Answer 20

till you are ready for a baby and sexual diseases :) OR until you are married.

Answer 21

You should do it when you get married.

Answer 22

I think you should wait until you can handle the responsibilities of sex.
Make sure this guy is important to you.
I would wait longer than a week. 3 months is the standard time for dating before you have sex.

Answer 23

atleast another month.