I'm bisexual but don't know how to tell my family.?

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my mom and grandmother hate bisexual and gay people

Answer 1

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I honestly don't know I am in the same position my whole family is extremly religious and they say that there are no such things as gay lebian or bi people and they think it is all a lie I think they take it too far and I haven't told them about me but I have never had a boyfriend yet just two girlfriends. I am sorry I cannot help if you find the answer on this situation could u tell me Hope All Goes Well:)

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myself darkblade

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i'll make sure to tell you if i find an answer

Answer 2

HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN INFRONT F THEM


AN THEN SQUIRT

Answer 3

OMG TURN STRAIT NOW AND GOD MIGHT FORGIVE YOU!!!

Answer 4

why do you have to tell them in the first place? keep it to yourself

Answer 5

thats their problem why do you feel you have to tell them, you cant live anyones life but your own. go about your life and live it like you want.

Answer 6

you dont need to tell them right away. maybe wait until you're in a serious relationship with a woman to tell them. they'll be more understanding if they can see that you're happy with a woman.

Answer 7

You have to be honest and tell them the truth,I don't think they will hate you, maybe they will have a better understanding of bisexual and gay people.Good luck.

Answer 8

Do you think they really need to know right now? You didn't say how old you are, so maybe it can wait til your in college? If they are really that much against bi and gay persons then I would wait. If you are interested in dating a girl and taking her back to your place then it is time to be frank with them. I also think that your grandmothers opinion really should not weigh in on your actions.

Answer 9

How recently have you decided you are bisexual? If it's a fling, I wouldn't bother telling them at all; but if it's your decision for a long time, then you need to find out if they love you more than they hate bisexual and gay people. . .I'm guessing they do (I hope). . .

my advice - don't help to cause the tension. Act mature about it - give and take - when they know, they will probably try to talk you out of it, counsel you, etc. Listen to them, explain yourself, keep an open mind and they might have an open mind. You can't expect them to accept you unless you also be willing to accept their views, so to speak. Be the calm, sensible one, and they might follow

Answer 10

Don't tell them....DUH!!! Live your life in the closet, sweetie.....that is the price you pay for doing abnormal things!!!

Answer 11

Until your in a bi relationship that you know will last I dont see the point in telling them. Now if you meet a girl and you guys are dating for a year or more and she says i want to meet the parents and you know shes the one thats when you tell them(By the one i mean if your family decides to dissown you or something she will have your back) Before you actually come out and say it give hints. If you guys ever see the ellen degeneres show say something like shes so much happier since she came out the closet or if you see a pretty girl on t.v say shes pretty and if your grandmother or mom make a comment about gay people you can comment about it without being rude. No disrespect to you because you will like who you like but im going to keep it 100% real with you. Most people can respect a gay person more then they can respect a bisexual person because at least gay people know what they want and like and can make a choice. Bisexual people cannot choose whether or not they want a man or woman and it makes them seem hoeish because they'll date any and every body. GOOd LUCK with whatever you decide