Question about a guy?

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I feel a wee bit cheesy having to ask such a question, but I'd like a bit of input.
So there's a guy I've taken a fancy to, although I haven't known him for a very long time (about two months). He'd talk to me and such over text and occasionally say a flirt or two every so often (he's called me cute and all, and once he said "Would you like me to play with your hair ;)" after I mentioned that I like people playing with my hair.

I'd talk to him either over text or skype. We don't see each other that much in person since we both go to separate, single sex schools. He's a pretty quiet guy in person, but he says it's because English is not his first language and he's a little shy (not just to me, but to everyone, except for guys). The other day over Skype, we agreed to go to the upcoming dance together (he didn't really ask, and I didn't really either).

So he talks to me and all and if I ask him to go to games and all with me, he'll reply, "I'm not going." And then express a bit of disappoint, and ten or so minutes later, he'd reply saying, "You know, I've decided I'd go after all :)" I usually can't hang out with him because I play in the band and can't leave during certain times, but he does come and say hi before he gets ushered by the people in the front.

I once asked him if he liked me (in a very awkward manner over Skype), and he said he barely met me, so he doesn't know. And he asked me the same, and I told him that he's better than most guys, but I also don't know.

Which leaves me to wonder, does he?

Answer 1

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His delays in getting back to you is that he is asking someone else. He doesn't know what to do. It's your job to go and tell this boy what y0u want to do with him when you 2 are alone later. that will get his attention

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That actually turned out to be the case.

Answer 2

I may not know much about these topics at my adolescent age but i watch my dad and who he's dating... I know that my dad LOVES this girl that he's been dating for 3 months, but he told me at 2 months... I'm not saying that he doesn't love you just saying that he might have been suprised that you said that out of the blue... What ever message you get from this answer follow it

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My dad

Answer 3

He wants to like you. But like he said, he probably doesn't have enough to go on. So just have some personal conversations with him. and see where it goes.

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Answer 4

sounds like to me he is one that takes things slow paced witch is very good. he may want to see if you two have any common interest before just jumping into a relationship. if he is interested then he wants it to be more than to see if he can get into your pants.