What do i do!? what do i do!?

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there is this guy i have been best friends with since the seventh grade, cody. we have secretly liked eachother these entire three years and we are now becoming a little flirty. we also have been hanging out at church functions and different things like that together. our friends joke around about how we belong together, and now he is finally asking me to the movies and stuff. everytime he asks im buisy but im thinking of hanging out with him over the thanksgiving break. ANY ADVICE? at all! about future relationship and/or first one on one date with him. anything you desire to type to me. it will help our a bunch. also, do i become completely flirty? will this ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out? AHHHH!

Answer 1

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Well if he's steeping up and admiring you you should show him some back. But dont act flrity if your not comftorable with it, but you should try to hang out with him as much as you can but dont over do it. If you cansee eachother thats great and if you can't than hang out some other time. I think he likes based on what you typed, and you can tell you like him back. But yahh like i said lfirt back with him and play around a bit, show him that you want him. And he'll show you how he feels too. And dont ever worry about what your friends say, they dont and shouldn't make desicions for you! kayy hunn. hope this helped.

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thanks :)

Answer 2

just, go out with him. casually and then if you guys get really close then you can tell him that you don't won't your friendship to be ruined

Answer 3

hang out with him he likes you and you like him if he finally is amking a move then go for it! :)

Answer 4

Hang out with him, then see if it turns into anything. AND about the whole 'friends' thing. Look and see if he is still friends with any of his exes! If he is then you two will be friends if things don't work out... if not that confront him about your worries before you guys date!

Answer 5

being competely flirty is nononononono!!! :(((
that would scare the crud out of me, and im a guy.
it sounds like what youv been doing is reeaaly good.
keep doing taht.
and dont talk that much ^ , it scared me and im reading it

Answer 6

If he is asking you out, then he enjoys your company. Being friends first is actually a good thing. There is a risk we all take on love. Everyone has disappointments. You must take the risk to find the result. Just be yourself. I married my best friend. And we still are best friends 35 years later.