What does my ex want?

Question

Does my ex want me back?
We broke up, during a few months before school ended, and it was pretty bad, we ignored each other. Towards the end we were pretty good, but after I asked her to drink with us, and we got into an argument, and argued, and I didn't call her until I sent her a text 3 months later to ask her how everything was. Which she ignored.

So we never talked, until she recently got facebook, and she messaged me a few hours right after I added her, and she was trying to keep the conversation going. She was being friendly in the message, asking about me, and when I asked her what's up, she said she just wanted to say hi. And then we talked about stuff, and she brought up stuff from the past, that she remembered I was trying to be the chef, and if my hair was still the same color before.

One of my friend who's a friend to her who didn't graduate cause she's 2 years younger, saw her, and they talked. And she said she really missed me, and was sorry about what she said to me, and so she asked my friend for my cell, and if I had text now.

What does she really want? It's been a week and a half since I heard the story about her wanting my cell from my friend.

Answer 1

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She definitely wants to start talking again but she doesn't want to give up her pride and give you the power over anything or the future relationship. She's probably in love with you and is scared to show you that so she wont become vulnerable and she wants to make it casual and kind of spark the old flame. If you're still interested you should definitely just hang out and talk about what each of you want and what each of you would bring into the relationship making sure that thing turn out better this time.
She wants to see if there's a future, please try and don't go on in life telling yourself what if. Give her another chance.

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Answer 2

Idk. Maybe you should make your queestions shorter. Sorry!

Answer 3

either she's just trying to be a friend, or she's desperate. obviously she's very immature and i dont think you should get back together. i'm guessing she's in high school and your in college? you should just move on, and not get back together, there was a reason you broke up

Answer 4

sounds to me like she see she made a misstake and she really misses you and wants you back
so if you feel the same way try talking to her about it.

Answer 5

there some girls thinking about there ex bf she is thinking about u and she feel sorry for u

Answer 6

I think she does want you back , at the time when she ignored you it was probably because she wasn't interested but now she's thinking back about old times and really misses you , trust me . . . i'm a girl (= & if that friend gave her your number then she'll probably be texting you sometime soon . If you really want her back then you should just go along with everything . Don't put yourself out there too much though , like show her that your interested but if she doesn't show some back then theres other girls you could go to .


Idk , i'm just saying that if a guy that i used to be with just throws himself at me , then i wouldn't really want him , for the simple fact that girls like what they can't have .

Good Luck though (=