I cheated on my girl with an ex :s?

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Ok, I need help on how to handle things now... that i've cheated on my girl.

You see, Ive been dating with my girl for 1 year. It was the perfect relationship until she changed. She suddenly started being selfish and aggressive, and was mad at me at all times for nothing. I talked to her a lot of times about her behavior, and many times she almost broke up with me.

Recently she took something very important from the relationship.... sex. She doesnt want me to have sex with her, not even to touch her. Its been like this for over 2 months. I suspected she was cheating, but I dont have any leads, or even the fact that she has been treating me kindly. The fact remains that there is something here, and she cant talk to me about it.

Last night I was alone and depressed, and drinking. Suddenly my exgirl was there and started talking. Then we were kissing... then having sex. But every single moment I was thinking it was my girl (believe me here, i felt desperate). After that, I just picked up my things and left.

Based on the situation, I really feel bad, I do love my girl, but I made a horrible mistake. Any advice? Please be serious about it.

Answer 1

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Similar situation here mate... I wasnt able to have sex with my gf more than once a week... It was really frustrating.. I never wanted to tell her directly coz i thought id upset her, and i did it through acting upset around her... Guess what happened? She broke up with me and ive been so mad at myself (i really loved her and i regret every damn thing i did) anyway ... The best thing you can do, if u REALLY love and you think things between youse will get better (which i doubt, sorry), dont tell her about ur mistake, or if u think that she will understand your actions and the reasons behind it, then tell her but be prepared to either make things better or lose her. MY advce, dont tell her.

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Life is a b1tch.

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I really do love her and want to solve the situation. And the best way to do this with her is to lie this time. I dont think she will understand my mistake or the reasons...

thnx for the help, this is just so messed up... I need to solve it

Answer 2

yes you need help, Gods help..