What do u do when your losing your best friend?

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me and my friend have been friends for 3 years and she got new friends and i feel like i dont even exist anymore we used to be so close and do everything together and now i feel like im losing her what do i do? i want my best friend back....

Answer 1

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I'm sorry that you're upset :( Have you tried talking to her about it? Have you told her that you feel like distance is growing in between you two and that it makes you upset? Hopefully, she will realize that and try to be at least somewhat closer.

I mean not to upset you, but if she doesn't seem to show much concern about the matter, perhaps you should try to let go and move on. I know it's not easy, but sometimes... that's the way that life must be.

However, life isn't all bad. In fact, both the positive and negative things which we experience in our lives are what make life such an incredible opportunity.

Have patience and try to go with the flow of the river of life. You do exist in this world.

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I'm in a similar situation with a (girl) friend.

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thanks so much you really helped

Answer 2

thing is you cant she chaged eventually youll change to and realize she isnt as important as you thought

Answer 3

You need to talk to her about this.
I almost lost a best friend...

Answer 4

feel depressed for a while, and then get over it and make better friends

Answer 5

Try and talk to her. Communication helps situations so, so much! Other than that, the best advice I can give is: "Time heals all wounds." You may not want to hear this but, you'll move on, she'll move on and you'll get other friends!


--Nick,


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Answer 6

I think you should flat out talk to her, Tell her how you feel and be strong about it. Don't break down and cry and expect everything to be alright. She's been your friend for 3 years she probably knows you better than you do at this point, she's worth fighting for. If she says nothing has changed, then maybe its you that has been withdrawing, Try to hang out with her and her new friends, make the new friends your friends, you know?

Answer 7

You can't force someone back to you.

Also if she's got new friends and isn't really paying attention to you- she's not only not you're best friend anymore- but she's not your friend anymore either. She's not valuing you. Hopefully she's just in a temporary phase right now, but you should hang out with other people so that you don't feel so dependant on her.

Answer 8

that's why the "bff" thing is not realistic and i've never wanted one.. ppl change, interests change, and/or, maybe there was personailty differences u may have not noticed, she did. when i drifted away frm friends or it as mutual this was alwys the case. Stay cordial, but as w/ any relationship, do not force yourself on anyone, she'l come back if the feelings's mutual.

Answer 9

She found someone more socializing if I you like
You just not fit the league in the mean time because
they are happy watlking talking joking all that
Why not you ha?
THink about it there must be somethign wrong she is deviating from you

If still you see there aint nothing wrong then you maybe lost the majic for her or something
so move on nothing stays the same all the time

deal with change

Answer 10

Sometimes that happen when your friends with someone and then you drift apart. Their is nothing you can do because she has chosen to go kick it with other people. She got your number so she knows she can call you. When I was in school it happen to me. We was all best of friend in middle school and most of high school. In about the 11th grade all things change. We all just eventually drifted apart and we never reconnect. It happens

Answer 11

wel u should stop talking to her then he nmay realize that she miss u ........and if sh dont then listen.....if she has found new friends then this means that she dont want u to be her friend may be she dont like u so u should improve ur self.......she cant be ur best friend coz best friends are BFF they dont leave u...........!

Answer 12

well i heard one says before , she says "i've lost my 5 years very best friend " and she continued " so what ? i have no time to worry o think about that , because i can't even force her/him to come back " she added " i can make a new friend =D , even closer one " ok , i take hers advice , because im in the same situation as urs , just good luck to you ! we love our best friend always , thats why we are sad .