Was I wrong for breaking up with my Virgo boyfriend? I have been with my boyfriend going on 6mths?

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he works nites, I work days so we really don't see each other, but some weekends he would rather stay in then stay then b with me, there has been actually 3 times we haven't seen each other for 3 weeks &he could have def made time for me at least 1 weekend each x, feel like everytime he asks something of me, I try to do it, example he told me he needed skully caps, so as a good gf, I ran to daffy's and got him skully caps, I asked him to take me to the movies, he said ok to make you happy and never took me, I never complained, I asked him to introuduce me to his bull dog, he wouldn't, never complained...
the other problem was he always talked about his ex's, sometimes he would anoganize me to the point that one time I compared myself to one of his ex's, I said u use to work out with her, so why can't me and u go to the gym, I know that was wrong now and one time I thru something in his face re: one of his ex's during a fight...I know this is was wrong &I shouldn't have done this, but he talked about his 30 ex gf's most of the time, somethings he would say he would say it for me to get mad
He also didnt want to introduce me to any of his friends or family but I guess that is just how some guys are, but to me that is a little strange not wanting to bring me out, he told me b/c he got into to many fights over his ex gf's he bought out
Also we went upstate for 5 days to winterize his house and we got into two HUGE fights, which I think def but a damper on this relationship, so we came back, didn't hang out that weekend, I knew we needed a break, we did hang out on Tues, but then on Thurs we had plans, I was getting out early, when I asked him when r u coming by, he goes I never told u I was coming by...we had plans and I don't know when the next time I would see him again, it could b another week, I really don't know when we would see each other, so I got upset told him I feel like he is waiting for the nxt thing to come along and I told him I wasn't happy and wanted to break up, now he won't even talk to me, I know I could b harsh but I was upset, we had plans and he just disregarded them and we never see each other

He is not all a bad guy and he def did things for me too and I def wans't a 100% prefect

but is it me or when you have a bf and you have plans you should want to see them

I broke up with him telling him I wasn't happy, which I wasn't a 100% and now he won't talk to me

How can I get him to talk to me and do u think I was wrong for breaking up with him

Answer 1

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of course not... you guys barley see each other when you needed him to be there he wasn't yet when he need you to be there you were.... he could at least take you out and spend the weekend with you... but no... he'd rather stay home... i could understand if he was just really tired... but after 3 weeks of not seeing my hun i would go crazy... :( and the end if you were not happy there is no point of staying... you tell him your not happy.. he should have ran over to you and begged you for forgiveness and said i swear i'll try my best to keep you happy... but it didn't go that way... forget him... just don't talk to him anymore.. its not worth your time... and you shouldn't feel sorry for him if he didn't try to make things work....

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thank u

Answer 2

Leave the guy. Not because he's a Virgo. Because he's got issues.

Answer 3

Leave him. Not because he a Virgo. You need better, life to short to wait for him to finaly see.