Me and my Virgo boyfriend of 5 mths broke up last week?

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basically he just didn't want to put an effort into it, Yes I broke up with him when we were both mad, we had plans, he didn't feel like coming by and we never see each other, we both have crazy work schedules and we need to see each other to make this work (sometimes it has been 3 weeks we didn't see each other, I am not a nag, I don't want to hang 24/7 but we should be seeing each other once a week) so I txt him this weekend, he wouldn't pick up my phone call, I understand I am sure he is as upset as me

So I text him I would like to make this work but you, as well as me, I have faults too that my Virgo loves to point out, we both would need to make an effort or maybe we can just be friends.

So he txts me back saying May be we can be friends. So I said I would like that, can you call me later, I want to talk about this

So he cc me on a foward email he sends to his friends, then he called me at work, I said let me call you back from my cell, we can talk, he said he doesnt want to talk about that, he tells me about his nite at work and stuff, then we talked, he said ok let me go to bed and I said ok I will talk to u soon

What do u think he really wants from me???

Answer 1

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Yeah I think he only wants to be friends.
It seems like he just wants to leave the relationship in the past,
but he doesn't wanna cut you out of his life... yet.
So if I was you, I wouldn't keep my hopes up..
I mean, I don't think you guys will go back to dating.
At least not now. Just try not to have any expectations.
And you won't be disappointed.

Try to meet some new guys.
or stay single if you want.

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thank u, I will

Answer 2

Virgo guys are hard to control or make be in a serious relationship. they like to have fun. i see it as he just wants to be friends.