I need help! What should I do?

Question

im in grade 11, never had a boyfriend, never even held a guys hand. ive asked guys out before and they said no, which is fine cuz they didn't like me. but recently ive met a guy who i liked and he liked me but he didn't want a relationship at the time which was fine i can understand. its been awhile and for the most part ive moved on. but im wondering for future times what should i do? should i wait for guys to ask me out? am i doing something wrong?

Additional Details

just to let ppl know i do become friends with them, really close friends sometimes... i dont just ask out random guys

Answer 1

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Don't be afraid to ask a guy out. There is no law that says a girl can't ask a guy out. Just be yourself, be nice and respectful. There are plenty of guys who like you, you just have to meet one of them.

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ok thnx

Answer 2

yeah well dont ask guys out, i always get to be friends with them first.well im 14 and iv had what like only 2 boyfriends. i get to know them well, we hung out a lot, then he asked me out. thats usually how it works. hope i helped!!!!=)

Devonnnnn

Answer 3

No If your Overweight then Thats your choice but if your not then There loss and Just try something new and get to knoq the guys better and get to see wht they like in girls and u could try to act like that Hope i helped

Answer 4

i dnt think the girl should ever ask the guy
become friends before anything get numbers an flirt around

Answer 5

dnt worry ive never had a bf either nt tht i get rejected no offense but because of my parents and im fine wit tht u should at least give it a try nxt time if ur nt up to it let em go a guy should b able to take it

Answer 6

First of all, STOP asking guys out. Its not attractive. Let THEM be the ones to ask YOU out. If a girl asks a guy out, they are considered to be weak or desperate and you don't wanna be that kind of girl. Just play hard to get as guys love girls who have a little bit of an attitude. Put it on, and feel the magic.

Answer 7

Hey
me myself had boyfriends it makes
you feel nice and loved and less lonely
i think you should become friends with a guy you would like
to date. than wait a bit ask to a dance or something
than maybe go further with it
hun you should get a boyfriend if you fell okay with that idea

hope i can help:)

Answer 8

im shore that you will find some one that wants you or you want them enuff that you will go for it lol hope this helps

Answer 9

u should wait for some more time...becoz ......if u had no relationship till now means u r good at study,,and i think u should love study,,not guys,,becoz guys r lots off,,,they wl come and go,,but study year and performance review wl not come back,,once if u wl study best,,automatically u wl have lots of friends if u wl have a good status in society....so and for two options which u have,,i think only friend and no relationship wl be batter,,its not like no one likes u...but have faith in god & parents ,,,just concentrate study,,,good luck,,,,

Answer 10

You are in 11th grade so don't rush kid. I think exactly like you, even now. You are not doing anything wrong from what you wrote. Don't ask them out so much, build some good relationship with him first. So don't rush asking guys out, just ask if they wanna hang out since you are a junior. You might want to wait right now.