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Question

ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter

Answer 1

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For starters, make sure you show interest. Some of us guys, especially the shyer ones, sometimes won't ask a girl out if they don't know for sure that the girl is interested in them in order to prevent rejection. No guy, anywhere wants to be rejected. So showing interest is absolute key.

Along with that make sure you show, for lack of a better word, sexual interest by flirting. Touch him once in a while, put your head on his shoulder if you're sitting by him, touch is very powerful and guys always notice it.

If he still doesn't budge, you ask him out. Some guys are horrible at picking up signs that girls give, even the most absolutely obvious ones. In addition, some guys get the signs but still feel too timid for whatever reason, usually fear of rejecting, to actually ask you out. So if he doesn't seem to be ask you, ask him!

If you're not sure how to go about asking him out, its simple, just say, "hey listen, if your not doing anything Saturday, I was wondering if you wanted to go (to see that new movie, or go bowling, or whatever else you want to ask). After that see what he says, if he doesn't say yes and says he has to see or that he's busy, he might not be interested, or he might really be busy. I'd say weigh the reaction, if he's interested he'll probably try to reschedule or at least sound truley disappointed that he wont't be able to. This is not an absolute rule being that everyone is different, but in my experience if a girl you like asks you out, you try to accomodate it the best you can.

Lastly, if asking him out isn't your style, you can try to infer that he ask you out by saying something like, "so when are you going to ask me/take me out to dinner?" or something like that. This is pretty good because it shows some confidence by infering that you know he wants to take you out, because of course he does, so the only question is when its going to happen.

Hope these suggestions help, and just remember that if for some reason it doesn't work out with one guy and he says no or whatever, who cares! You don't want to be with a guy like that than anyway and there are too many guys out there who will be willing to give you the world for you to be worried about just one.

Good luck!

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I'm a guy who's terrible at picking up signs and asking girls out so whenever a girls wanted to go out with me, these are the steps that seemed to work lol.

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thanks

Answer 2

stop waiting and ask him out.
guys are shy about their feelings

Answer 3

one word. flirt. (and i suppose an occasional hug)

Answer 4

dress more slutty? lol jking=p if you got guy friends but they dont ask you out, then theres a reason so many of them see you as only a friend... try talking with one of them about it... not 1 u wanna date, but one you trust as a good friend... ask him why he only sees you as a friend and if he has some ideas how to get less guy friends and more nights out=p

Answer 5

Can I ask u out? lol

Answer 6

Make sure you're approachable for the question. As tough as lots of us guys act, we're definitely afraid of rejection, or simply don't have the courage to ask. If you lose too much patience try talking to whoever you'd like to date, about dating, NOT ABOUT MARRIAGE! haha Its ok for women to breach the subject i think, though still even these days a bit uncommon.

Answer 7

idk, they'll ask you out if they like you. maybe they've been waiting for you to be ready, obviously ur ready now so maybe it'll happen soon.

Answer 8

I wish that the the girl i like would be thinking like you right now hahaha

Answer 9

flirt and can you please answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlwTQBdy5rTcEPNTQiBWP8bsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091123192426AAIHhaX

Answer 10

1st give him a beer and a couple of shots of what he likes.
2nd strip for him.
3rd apply your mouth to his penis.(*******)
Then he asks you out.

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Genius

Answer 11

drop hints or ask them out.

Answer 12

hey i think best thing u should do is ask them out for lunch or do somthing with the lad that a couple will get up to and the spark may happen or go cinema with him and get close and cuddley that would work! im sure of it
gd luck to u

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Answer 13

you do it urself :] a guy always likes it if the girl does . trust me :]] good luck

Answer 14

dont wait for them to ask u because its hard enough for guys to ask out a girl but its even harder to ask out a girl who u already look at as a good friend cuz some guys are both afraid of rejection and the really good guys value ur friendship to much to screw it up over a failed relationship so they stay quiet.

Answer 15

Look for the bulge in the pants....when you see that, you know he likes you...

Answer 16

Hey I know I'm a girl but I totally can relate to this and I think I can help. I'm a freshman in high school and I was sooo intent on finding a boyfriend that I was like nonstop looking. I was looking for everyway possible to find one because I like only had guy friends but none that would ask me out ya know? So me and my sister, who is a sophomore, were like uggh! Boyfriends boyfriends boyfriends. And my sister finally just got sick of looking so she's like I'm gonna give up on looking for guys and just chill for a while. The day after, no joke, that she stopped looking a guy asked her out. So I was thinking, lucky. And I kept looking. She kept telling me to stop looking and I wouldn't. Finally I got grounded for going to far to get a boyfriend so I was like ugh okay I'm done, time to focus on school. And the day after my boyfriend asked me out. The point of this whole thing is, you really have to stop looking. And then they'll come to you. Okay well I hope I helped(:

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