Advice (GIRLS ONLY PLEASE)?

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ok, so uhm heres the thing, im 14 and never had a gf. For the people i hang out with thats wierd. i really want to no why. is it becuase im a big guy? or is it more of a race thing. im italian in a mostly asian community. i mean i treat everyone with lots of respect, im known throughout my whole high school, i just dont know whats going on. are girls really that shallow?

Answer 1

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omg honey no it is completely fine and totally normal that you havent had a girlfriend yet! you are still young, and it may seem like there are a ton of people who have been in relationships already, but there are more out there than you think who havent. i went through high school alll 4 years searching and searching for a boyfriend, and i found out that i was looking more for the idea of a relationship then i was for an actual guy worth my time. dont rush into these things, the right girl will come up. and just because you havent had a gf DOES NOT make you any less worthy or any less attractive or any less anything! i mean when i was in high school i was (without sounding cocky) drop deadddd, and still i was just too shy and the right person was just not there for me. dont worry too much about it, the right girl will come for you. theres someone out there for everyone, and your girl will come when you least expect it. youve got more than enough time in your future for relationships, right now just keep enjoying life. god blessss!=)

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Answer 2

I'm not. It just may be no one has seen you in that light yet.

It's kinda the same way for me. I didn't have a bf until i was 15....and i'm glad I waited, it made the entire thing more special.

Just wait for her.

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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… .....by the way, this was my first bf.....please answer.

Answer 3

Most likely the girls are really shallow ...most asians only have relationships with only asians don't get your self down your fine theres a girl out there for you

Answer 4

Well what i would have to say first is do you want one at the moment.? It sounds like you are asking this question because of peer pressure from others to have a girlfriends because most of your friends do. Trust me it is jsut a lot of trouble to get into a relationship if you are not ready for one. And especially at your age. Focus on school and get to the place you really want to be in life. Then you will attract a wonderful girl because you will have good self confidence in who you are as a person rather then jsut falling in with socail memes.

best of luck

Answer 5

pftttt id date u like wow ur italian from when r asians more popular (im asian) but like wooow

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Answer 6

* you asked so i'm not judging(

there could be many diffrent reasons
-ugly
-big
-race
-personality
-smarts
-attitude
-and they may just not be interested

i'm sorry if it sounds harsh but it may be true i'm 14 as well and i've had 2 bfs 1 whom i didn't really like i felt bad for him so i said yes when he asked me out
you may also be sending the wrong vibes to the right girls. show them you're the one for them whater or not thats true
be ncer but not to nice joke around and that atacts us :P
would you rather have a girlfriend when the times right and you've found some one you really like or have a pitty date?
i hope it helps :P
-noelle