Please spread your wisdom to me, i need advice?

Question

fml.
why is there more bad days than good days?
why does life suck at times?

why does it seem that everyone but me can get through the hard times so easily?

how do i become emotionally stronger?

and please dont be mean & tell me to go get help. i am not depressed. i just have had a lot of bad things happen recently.

Answer 1

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..Because as intelligent lifeforms we create the world we live in through our thoughts word and actions...
because people suck, because parent don't bother to guide, nurture, encourage, or pass on wisdom to their children cause their too busy, so now we have children raising children...

because people lie to themselves and ignore their problems cause they don't know how to heal, don't know their sick, or are just too lazy...

stop sucking, ( that's what I'm trying to do) believe in yourself, pursue the things you value, wright wisdom to your heart, be accepting and appreciative, and make good choices...

side note: knowledge is the key to understanding-is the key to acceptance-is the key to forgiveness- is the key to peace- is great...
non of this is possible without love...truth...trust...
We are all part of the same species therefore the same family...

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thanks i'm going to try to do what you said

and everyone else who helped too - thank you

Answer 2

It sounds like you are depressed, which is actually something you can address in therapy; but talking with friends & allowing yourself to feel the bad emotions just as much as the good ones is important to recovery. Just take your time, talk to people you trust & the more you go through ups & downs, the more you will grow stronger over time.

Answer 3

It seems like thats how life is. Some people just have a don't care attitude.

Answer 4

prayer ask god to help you

Answer 5

I completely understand you, i have the same problems sometimes... I guess the older you get the more problems you have and that's just how it is. In order to stay happy you have to work through your problems and don't let them get to you. You will become stronger as you experience it and have has enough. Some people are just not strong and that's just how you are and can't do anything about it. I'm sure people don't get through hard times easily it's just that that's how they seem to show it.

Answer 6

Life is like that some times. the most we can do is go on living it and keep a happier mind about things. even when things get bad you just have to tell yourself that things will get better, which they will. Bad things happen to people everyday, sometimes more than one bad thing happens to someone atleast everyday for atleast a month, (I've learned from experience) Things will get better, just remember to be happy no matter how hard things get, and it'll be ok. ^-^

Answer 7

I know exactly how you feel. Life is full of so many obstacles & it feels as if though they are always bringing you down. You are obviously trying to overcome a very crucial time in your life & it is very difficult to seem optimistic or feel strong, but just wait it out, things will eventually get better. Bob Marley once said: "Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you're riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. flee from hate, mischief & jealousy, don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality, wake up & live." That is exactly what you need to do, try to leave all the bad behind & just "wake up & live."

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Personal Experience/Bob Marley

Answer 8

You know life just blows sometimes but then I think I only have one life to live and I have to start living now, I can't wait to start living I have to live right now, theres no point in living if you can't feel alive!

Life sucks because it just sucks at times nothing more to it than that. What ever happens there is always a silver lining and the glass can always be half full. Like when my parents got divorced I was so sad but then I realised they wouldnt fight anymore.

Everybody struggles with hard times, there will be a point in everyones life where there will be a time so hard they feel like they can't get through. Its just maybe your moments are coming sooner than other peoples.

To become emotionally stronger in hard times you have to let other people in and let them help you. Sometimes you have to give people the power to break you in order for them to help you.

Hope I helped!

Answer 9

unfortunately it is a part of life. Something bad always happens to me around exam time and its something we all have to learn to live with.

Answer 10

go for a walk, observe everything around you, you can see, others can't. there are a lot of good things in life. it's just a matter of perspective. YES! we all have bad days, but they are not always going to be bad. you need to let go on things you can't change. that's going to help you a lot.
life does not suck, stop thinking that way...and im sure you'll see changes around you.
you are probably not depressed, but pessimism is a lot worst! cheer up, you'll have sunny days soon...and metaphorically speaking ..if it rains remember that rainbows only show on rainy days.

Answer 11

I have been thorugh some hard times lately myself and you need to do something you enjoy it will relax your mind,listen to postive music,surround your mind around postive energy.Tell your self you will make it that you are a brick wall and you are not about to crumble. Everyone has it hard at times and you never know what they go through behind closed doors.. Keep your head up

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable.”

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Answer 12

There are some things that happen that we can not control, like when bad things happen to good people. There are many things that happen because of choices that we make in our lives. Think of ways to make good choices that will have a happy outcome so that you won't keep having so many regrets. You will have a higher self esteem, and this can help you to be a stronger and more confident person.