Is He showing signs of being Controlling?

Question

ok so weve been seeing eachother for 3 months..i am noticing little things that may or not be controlling signs..When we see eachother its always the time he wants..making me wait around for him..lately, when I tell him im going out he asks me like hes abit uneasy about it.."but where are you going"..he asked me if i was free tommorow and i said no and hes like ":O you cant have a life outside of me..you have to only focus on me" while laughing..and i said "secrelty you actually mean that" and he laughed..hes kind of really jealous even of actors..I work at a mall so i called on my break and i said i was walking around and hes like "oh ya im sure checking out all the guys..making eye contact" lol he says this all in a joking way but im starting to wonder..He makes me incredibly happy but I dont want to miss the signs and end up being controlled...he is really amazing and makes time for me..puts me first..not like any others i have dated..so just wanted to know if those were early signs??

Answer 1

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Well, he is acting insecure and if you already have the hunch that he's being controlling, it's because you are right. Your instincts are right on. He is masking his jealousies with humor and acting as if he's playing around, but he is really just feeling you out to see how much he can push you....and ultimately, how much he can control you. Get away now while you can.

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Answer 2

he is jealous this has happened to me with some of my past girlfriends first they make little jokes then they are telling u where to be and what to do its really stressful

Answer 3

this does not mean that he is controlling- but he do thinks that the world evolves around him

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