Just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

Question

i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please

Answer 1

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And your even thinking about going?

Yes he is talking about sex. I doubt very much he has learned anything from your time apart. I suggest you skip the breakfast. And definitely skip the sex.

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Ain't going. If i do i will end up crying and going back to him cause the kids are askin where there dad is and why hasn't been home.

Answer 2

don't go. that is absolutely ridiculous what he did to you. he isn't worth your time. he probably does want sex. seriously re-think this because that's pretty serious.

Answer 3

Once a cheater always a cheater, what was his reason for his actions then? It will be the same now, sweetheart don't put yourself through the trouble of giving him your heart again, but if you do have kids together, find time for each other WITH the kids and ONLY then. He has had this chance with you, and proved his unfaithfulness. Unless you believe in second chances, and know him well enough to say there was good reason behind the mishap which there NEVER is GOOD REASON don't bother.

Answer 4

Ugh. He sounds like a heel. He wants his cake and wants to eat it, too. If you have any self respect you won't give him any until he really works at making things up to you.

Answer 5

yup dont do it he cheated on you in ur own bed in ur own house with some whore he doesn't love you he just wants you as a booty call

Answer 6

If I were you, he never would have texted me. That's because I would have put a block on him soon after breaking up with him.

The fact that you did not block him is telling. It tells me that part of you wanted to hear from him again. Good grief, why do women -- who are supposedly "strong and independent" -- allow themselves to be treated like such doormats?

Sounds like his co-cheater has moved on, and he's having trouble getting a new girlfriend. You're a complete fool if you go back to him.
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Answer 7

If i were you i would end it..
and since you have kids staying w. him
sends you kids the message that it is okay
if ur husband/wife cheats on you..
be the positvie roll model for your kids and
let them know that cheating is not okay and that
you have the strength and courage to walk away
and that you deserve much better..
in the end ur kids just want u to be happy..
and if they see ur hurt all the time they will begin
to hate their dad.

Answer 8

After what he did to you, you shouldnt be meeting him for anything. He only wants to worm his way back in your life and bed. How could you even consider working things out with him? Do you think he would want to work things out with you if you had cheated on him????? Tell him your going to pass on the breakfast date and tell him to f*** himself.

Answer 9

As I said before to your previous question stand him up and make him pay for the hurt he has caused you and your children

Answer 10

Sounds like a booty call. How do you feel about that?

Answer 11

He wants sex, he is kinda being direct about it, and if you meet up with him and don't go to his house, he will likely turn things around because you are a tease and whatnot. Hear me out, if you have sex with him, you will get into a very ugly game. Do not have sex with him until you decide if you wanna work things out or not, and don't let him sweet talk you into anything. He sounds like a pro.

Answer 12

make him work a little harder to get you back, don't be a push over.