HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

Question

Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)...
I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??

Answer 1

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Well, it seems to me you have a right to be. Just be civil with her. Don't start anything with her. Don't say hi, don't wave, don't contact her period UNLESS she initiates it. If she says hi, then si, so on and so on. And if she happens to start a convo, just keep it short and sweet. She has no business knowing yours, and don't give her fuel to use against you with your other dance groupies. Just always say "everything is fine" and all should be good =)

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Asker's Comment:

Great answer, exactly the type of thing that I wanted (:
Thankyou.

Answer 2

Is it possible to move to another dance group? If there isn't another, couldn't you make another?
Otherwise, the only way to not come across as bitchy is to talk to her only when she starts the conversation, and make sure the tone of your voice is calm.

Answer 3

........... Ignore her completely as if she doesn't exists, rest will fall directly in there place.