Is it appropriate for friends with benefits to discuss their other sex partners?

Question

I once had a fwb setup a while back. The guy was freakin gorgeous, but I would never date him exclusively. He was very affectionate and loved to cuddle. Anyway one day we decided to meet up for some sexy time. However, I had not seen him two months due to our hectic work schedules. Anyway, out of the blue he asked me had a been with anybody since we last had sex. My answer was yes. The look on his face was priceless. He asked me like a zillion questions about the guy. Then asked me did I sleep with him again and my answer was no. His reply was well he just probably used u for sex. I told him well that was my intentions as well. Then he started telling me about other girls he had met since we had last seen each other. I gave him two thumbs up!LOL. But the weird thing as after we left eachother, he didn't give me the passionate kisses he usually gives me when we departed.

Answer 1

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It sounds like he does have feelings for you and was upset you two weren't exclusive fwb. That's the worst thing when it comes down to fwb because it can get messy with emotions and no one knows what the acceptable boundaries are since there really aren't any set rules. As for discussing other sex partners, it depends on the person if they can handle it. In this case he didn't like it, so if you do see him next time don't bring it up.

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Answer 2

Lisa, that's because he likes you more than a friend with benefit.

Can you answer mine? It's about a potential relationship, though.