Are there any men left that will buy a woman dinner and not expect anything in return?

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Beastly - been out with 2 muslims and would never do that again. They have less respect for women that other guys.

Answer 1

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I know I can't speak for the other men in this world, but I know THIS man doesn't expect sex in return for dinner. Especially if it is a first date. I don't want to sound like a prude or overly conservative, but I always like to get to know a woman and develop some sort of bond before I get physical with one. There are too many diseases in this world to screw on a first date. In fact, playing with a live hand grenade makes more sense than sexing on a first date.

I may not expect sex, but by all means please do flirt with me and hold a decent conversation over that dinner. I am guilty of holding a look into her eyes and casually touching her as we speak to each other, but I am not expecting those clothes to come off just yet. I want to know what kind of woman she is before I get physical with her. If she wants me to pay for dinner, then that is fine. I was raised in an old fashioned household. If she wants to go Dutch, then that is good also. If she wants to buy me dinner, better yet. As long as we have a good time, then it was money well spent.

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good to know. thanks

Answer 2

Yes. But there are very few.

Answer 3

TELL EM GIRL. IT SEEMS ALL MEN ARE TIGHT WATS NOWADAYS BUT ARE QUICK TO JUMP IN BED.

Answer 4

anything? not even a kiss? or even a thank you? are you homeless? need some random fool to feed you? do you know how the world works?

Answer 5

Yes. I'm one of them. I'd buy you dinner, desert and carry you home. With no expectations, say goodbye at the door.x

Answer 6

Some guys may try and take you out to get it but some guys just want to take ya out to get to know you. Its just dinner. unless hes a douche he will realise this..

Answer 7

Bite thy tongue.

Answer 8

yes im one of them just need kisses nothing else

Answer 9

Not all guys are *** holes their are plenty out their i'm one of them I don't use girls what i get in return is that your happy. Anyone who tries to get the otheir stuff is disguising.

Answer 10

Definitely, but depending on how you view men can make a different outcome.
Or another alternative, you just haven't met the right guy.

Answer 11

actually... the truth is it IS very rare.. most of my buds all do this... They think I'm a freak wanting to get the kow a person first before jumpiing into the sack.. I actually don't mind waiting a month or so... its suppose to be a mutual choice... not payment for getting something else!!!

So NO... not all men are like this... you need to find someone who takes you seriously as a person and not just as a piece of meat sweety...

Answer 12

That's a little unfair my dear, all I wanted was you to convert to Islam. I was really thinking only of you.